Generally speaking, suffering is our most contradictory word.

People can be born, and the suffering in life is actually ubiquitous and inevitable.

This is the case with Xie Yanting, who was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at birth. His hands and legs are severely deformed, so he can't hold a pen or speak. Life in Xie Yanting seems to be more painful than ordinary people. But although life is so hard, these excessive sufferings have not knocked him down.

Perhaps to change the status quo, perhaps to prove himself, Xie Yanting, who was physically disabled and determined, went to Lanzhou University for eight years and was admitted to the doctor at the age of 28.

Fortunately in misfortune: growing up in love

Although Xie Yanting was unfortunately born with a physical disability, he can still have a family that is willing to accept him, love him and tolerate him.

Xie Yanting was born in 1992. For the whole family, the birth of a life is a blessing. But just as the Xie Yanting family was happy, a bolt from the blue suddenly came.

When Xie Yanting 1 1 month old, the doctor diagnosed cerebral palsy.

As he grew up, more characteristics different from ordinary people became more and more obvious.

His language ability is poor, and his face and limbs are deformed to varying degrees. In short, at first glance, it seems that the intelligence is abnormal.

Because of his serious appearance, Xie Yanting received a lot of gossip from outside.

However, no matter how the outside gossip attacked him, Xie Yanting received 100% care and meticulous protection at home.

In fact, after learning about Xie Yanting's illness, his mother was also very anxious and uneasy at first.

But with the passage of time, the mother finally accepted the status quo of the child and prepared to raise the child wholeheartedly.

In this way, in the later days, my mother took good care of Xie Yanting. In order not to hurt children's psychology, mother Liu Feng doesn't even want to have a second child.

Grow up in love and grow up slowly in the face of illness.

Because of illness, Xie Yanting's growth is very slow: he learns much slower than his peers (not only learning knowledge, but also walking and talking slowly). )

Fortunately, his parents have always been patient.

In this way, day after day, they slowly taught Xie Yanting how to walk and talk, how to think, and how to walk leisurely in the world of gossip. ...

In fact, the disability brought Xie Yanting not only gossip, but also his weird appearance and thin disability certificate even made him lose the ability to receive formal education.

Because of Xie Yanting's obvious mental disability, the whole family finally had to teach him to study in person.

Although this is not difficult for the family's education level (Xie Yanting's family has received higher education), this persistence day after day and year after year is enough to make this educational opportunity more precious. No matter spring, summer, autumn and winter, cold and hot summer, their family took time to accompany Xie Yanting, teaching him bit by bit and giving him homework.

Time flies, cold comes and summer goes, this teaching 12. At the same time, Xie Yanting was watered by this highly concentrated love 12 years.

After failing in the college entrance examination, Lanzhou University applied for eight years of sit-in.

Perhaps in order to prove himself, Xie Yanting put forward her mother's desire to take the college entrance examination after reading 12 elementary school, junior high school and senior high school courses.

In fact, under normal circumstances, Liu Xiaofeng, as a mother, will try her best to support and realize her son's wishes, and this time is no exception.

So, after searching for various methods, Xie Yanting, who had never participated in formal education, took part in the college entrance examination as a "social youth" under the arrangement of her mother and got 262 points.

The score of 262 is very low compared with the perfect score of 600.

But for a multiple-choice question with a perfect score of 280, such a result can be called excellent.

Because Xie Yanting can't hold a pen, he can only do multiple-choice questions on paper.

Therefore, it is really helpless to get 262 points. If he can write, Xie Yanting may be admitted to a better university.

However, the result is dead after all. Looking at this result alone, no university is willing to admit Xie Yanting.

So, in order to give her son a chance to continue his studies, the mother chose to ask the dean of the School of Mathematics and Statistics of Lanzhou University for an exception and agreed to let her child attend the school.

Growing up in adversity, not being knocked down by suffering, the results are relatively excellent. After getting to know Xie Yanting, the dean showed a very appreciative attitude and readily agreed to Xie Yanting's request for auditing.

From then on, Xie Yanting finally got his wish and entered the university he longed for. But, for him, this is just the beginning. After entering the university, the study life is more difficult than before.

In order to keep up with the teacher's progress, Xie Yanting often spends several times more time studying than others: he can't take notes, so he can only use his brain to write down what the teacher said in class. In short, Xie Yanting often feels at a loss.

However, Xie Yanting is Xie Yanting after all. He was miserable since he was a child, but he never wanted to give up. No matter how hard and tired he is, he will not be defeated.

Many things happen. After eight years of hard study, Xie Yanting's research has finally achieved results.

Published academic papers in two foreign journals on 20 17 and 20 19 respectively. Later, due to his outstanding achievements, Lanzhou University awarded Xie Yanting an honorary postgraduate degree certificate.

It is this certificate that draws a perfect end to his eight-year auditor status.

Today, 28-year-old Xie Yanting is still studying at Lanzhou University. Self-motivated, he chose to continue to study PhD with his tutor Xu Shoujun.

Therefore, even though suffering was imposed on him, he still loved mathematics and swam in the academic sea of Wang Yang with determination to never give up.

This is Xie Yanting's attitude towards life.

This still applies to us.

Since boys diagnosed with cerebral palsy can still pursue their dreams by reading blogs, why can we, as ordinary people, be knocked down by a little setback and stop decadent?