First, the significance of parental rearing patterns and children's social development Early childhood is an important period for children's social development. Children's experiences and experiences in this period, as well as social development on this basis, will affect their life, whether they can adapt to society in the future, whether they can handle interpersonal relationships well and whether they can shoulder their due social responsibilities. To a great extent, it depends on the life experience and education in this period. Parental rearing patterns reflect parents' attitudes towards their children and their educational concepts. Second, the influence of different family education methods on children's development. Different parenting attitudes and educational methods have different influences on children's future social development. Good family education is conducive to children's social development. Bad family education methods hinder children's social development to some extent. 1. pet type. Some parents dote on their children, and doting is the most common wrong family education method. Spoiling parents' attitude towards their children is "afraid of falling into their hands, afraid of melting into their mouths", interfering too much with their children, binding their thoughts and limiting their actions. Therefore, children often show cowardice.