Before Tu Youyou won the Nobel Prize, there were many articles in the official WeChat account saying that low emotional intelligence is not a problem, as long as you have the ability. From a certain point of view, it is really no problem to have low emotional intelligence. Look at Fu Juan in Sherlock, Schell in The Big Bang Theory, and Tu Youyou. But the big front is low. Can you compare with others? Or put it mildly: Is your IQ up to standard? What did that sentence say? You didn't work hard for your talent. If you don't work hard at all, you should attribute your failure to EQ. I must lie to myself that my failure is due to my low emotional intelligence, which is a problem caused by my failure to come, be a man and learn from others' versatility. Then individuals must be realistic and say: If you want to succeed, it is unreasonable! That said how to talk here. To tell the truth, individuals used to be this type of live chestnuts.
At that time (the standard action here is to grow a beard), I tried my best in my work, but I was led by all kinds of blows. You said I didn't work hard, but I did the work of the first four people alone? ! But all the people around you who get promoted and raised are recognized as "unprofessional" policemen. The facts are before us. What did you say?/Sorry? Are you swollen? Hate value says that you have worked hard for several years, but the final result is that you have been taught a lot by the leaders, without adding a word, in one go, and there is no repetition from beginning to end. It is estimated that not many parties listen to this situation. That's not all. The ending, which symbolizes the happy ending, not only did not appear, but also appeared anecdotes. It is said that after the leader said this big article, he talked about his personal writing ability and writing level for a long time. How big is this big section? The content is so long that the leader is worried that TA is thirsty and wants to add some water to TA's teacup. Well, here's the problem. In this case, we can learn from each other every day. Can I take the path of COS Xianglin? Pull everyone around and say that the leader doesn't like me, the leader doesn't like me, and the leader is eccentric! I am so wronged. After all I've done for nothing, I can't live without a positive word, Balabala. Of course, in terms of practical value, I can also be a living example of low emotional intelligence = unsuccessful, which is of critical and educational significance to future generations. However, the real version is that I cherish my saliva, stay energetic and have never quarreled with my leaders. Everyone has different ideas, but once an idea is formed, it is impossible to correct it. Especially some inconclusive things, an article is in front of everyone. You say it's well written, I say it's sloppy, what do you say it's swollen? Then write a thousand words. See you every day. You say my writing is poor, ok, ok, then I will try to improve. Although I don't know if it works, what I know is that this kind of living method is definitely better than living with resentment and hatred every day.
Writing thousands of words is to give yourself a task, a confession, an idea and a YY. For example, although the manuscript is criticized now, it is still common, but individuals can make up their minds with the training of leaders: leadership, leadership, how hard do you work? If not, I wrote 400,000 words to improve my writing. I have also been to the homepage of * * and the homepage of * * forum, which has been recommended by the editors many times. Of course, it's just brain tonic. On the one hand, we should save some face and use it occasionally. On the other hand, I know that many things are different and cannot be explained clearly in one sentence. Of course, if one day, your ability is strong enough, and your negative EQ of 5 million won't affect your being seen by the world, such as Ms. Tu, then you can really say that EQ really doesn't matter. However, if you don't have enough strength to catch up with fate, no gold finger and no one to open the plug-in, then you should be realistic and don't take low emotional intelligence as the leaves of fig trees in the Garden of Eden to protect yourself.
Next, based on the principle that an argumentative paper cannot have only one argument, I fry a chestnut with sugar, just like a fairy should be well equipped (refer to the riding of Guanyin, Manjusri and Bodhisattva Bodhisattva in The Journey to the West). Sheldon will also encounter problems in using various instruments in his work. For example, in one episode, he quarreled with Leonard's colleagues and girlfriends for using * * equipment, and in another episode, the four of them attended a dinner hosted by the school for school directors, and Leonard was killed in the process of fundraising. Do you remember?
Similarly, Daniel can still encounter such problems, not to mention our notes. ! For example, a colleague and I went to a remote place in the suburbs of Beijing for an interview. The traffic there is extremely inconvenient, and it is the kind of place where you have to walk five stops after getting off the suburban bus. So we tried to go to the advertising department by bus. In order to better equip our customers, the car in the advertising department is the best in the whole newspaper. Of course, they travel the most. They have traveled all over Beijing. So my colleague went bravely, and was righteously rejected within two minutes. He's not on the road, it's inconvenient and he has no time, BALABALA. What should I do in the face of difficulties? Half an hour later, I tried it again carefully. The result is completely different. People readily agreed, but also seriously said that they could take us to the designated place at our designated time. Of course, my objective premise is that there are no fish balls, rice noodles and golden fingers. The only difference from my previous colleague is that he is a little more popular, that is, the distance is sweat, that is, he indirectly slapped my colleague a few times at intervals of half an hour. So you can say that interpersonal communication is not important, or that it is sometimes different in daily work. Of course, I am a counterexample, because I didn't grasp the key points and didn't do a good job with the leaders.
Students who say you brag, don't criticize education yet. Tell me another new case that was alive last night. It is said that because of Monday syndrome, everyone's performance at work is not very strong, which is what Monday should mean, but the problem is coming. A version, small B series, the layout has a skylight! The problem is fierce and the consequences are serious! Xiao Jia, the editor who stumbled across this problem at that time, faced two paths. One is to learn from Lei Feng and call Xiao Yi in front of the big leader on duty in the middle of the night 12 to remedy it quickly.
The second is to look at jokes, just do the work you are responsible for well. Other pages have nothing to do with me anyway, and I won't care, so I love to watch them! At this moment, energy blocks, physical values and equipment packages are useless, depending on personality! Unfortunately, this Bian Xiao B's character has been in arrears for many years. It is expected that he has long been blacklisted by the kitchen god. At the end of the year, the bad cans were cashed, and Xiao Jia, who was busy looking for reporters to rush the manuscript, ignored it. The latter facts also fully prove the power of zero deposit and lump sum withdrawal. In the past, the left of B made it die. The reality is that n people found the problem later, but no one said it. Everyone has been vividly interpreting the "unspeakable secret" all night. It's 12 o'clock, and it's time for the big leader to review and sign! Although the carriage didn't turn into a pumpkin, the boss on duty directly turned into a fire-breathing dragon! According to the audience present at the time, this scene was described as too bloody and fishy.
Saying 1000 words and 10000 words is not encouraging bad style (serious face). In fact, everyone in the above example has done nothing wrong. The key is how hard I try to prove my argument. Let's talk about tiger skin again. Although there are people who are left, middle and right, Confucius taught us that "benevolence, righteousness and peace" is the king. Too much emphasis on emotional intelligence or IQ is not serious. Both IQ and EQ should be grasped, and both hands should be hard, just like the material spirit should have a double harvest. On this issue, I think I have a say in IQ and EQ. Don't take low emotional intelligence as an argument that you are not successful, but as the ultimate principle that you don't work hard.