Never let your man be your only hobby. This is the most common mistake many girls make when they are in love. They want to stay with their boyfriends all the time, and it is best to see each other while eating and drinking Lazar. But men usually get tired of this kind of life faster than women, and will soon ask for their own private space, but you think that the two have reached the point where fire and water are compatible and love each other as close as glue.

No matter how close you are, you should have your own space.

So you gave up your original hobby and even reduced your dating with friends. It seems that there is no one else in your world except him. Then men who chase you often don't remember what you sacrificed. Even quarreling is justified, just as men often say, "I didn't ask you to do that!" "

Housewives can also be sexy.

Yes, you volunteered, even asked for it. I hope all female friends can remember that men like to have private space even if they get married and have children. He wants to talk about women with his buddies. He wants to have his own hard drive. These things can't be changed no matter how hard you try, so the smartest thing to do is to change yourself and make yourself decent. Developing your hobbies and making friends not only improves yourself, but also gives each other space.

Even if you marry someone, don't give up studying.

Yang Xia is my best friend. Three years ago, we all envied her because she married a handsome and rich man. That man is still a young man of literature and art, who knows how to create all kinds of romance. But even this beauty may be lost by Yang Xia.

In the past, Yang Xia invited our girlfriends to travel or get together at least once a month, and also signed up for yoga and calligraphy classes, but after marriage, she became a housewife. Serve the man who only eats at home three times a week like a nanny every day. She's too busy. During this period, she also suspected that her husband was cheating, because her husband had not turned over the quilt with her for a long time.

I once asked Yang Xia out to chat. She praised her for being a good man, but she didn't remember that she was actually a very good person. Speaking of calligraphy and yoga, she said that her husband has both, so just live a good life. I learned that to be worthy of him. Now that I'm an old couple, it's unnecessary. She is like a supporter of her husband now, so she doesn't understand why she has to sacrifice so much, but her husband is getting colder and colder.

Learn to dress yourself up.

Never change your nature for one person. Otherwise, you will lose everything you have. It's simple. You are loved by him because you are simple, lovely and smart. If you want to turn yourself into something precious that he carries with him, I'm sorry! No matter how precious things are, they will always be objects and will be replaced one day.

Dear, you must be independent and have your own thoughts and principles. Men need private space, because they are independent, and if you just want to be attached and he wants to be independent, you can't keep him sooner or later.