It is said that looking for an object should be consistent with three views: outlook on life, values and world outlook. I think this makes sense. Your consumption concepts are different, so the contact environment is different. For example, we ordinary people and those traffic stars, whose lives are very strange to us, wear glamorous clothes and jewelry every day, and their lives are different from those of us ordinary people.

So they may be talking about luxury goods such as Armani, Gucci and LV after dinner, while we are talking about how cheap Chinese cabbage is in the supermarket. This is the difference of growing environment, which leads to the inconsistency of values consumption, so they have nothing to say.

Such a scene will also appear in two different growth environments. So why find a "suitable" one? Because the story of "The Prince and Cinderella" only exists in fairy tales, not in this materialistic society.