I asked him at that time, "So you don't want to work hard. What do you want to do? " He said: "I want to be a salted fish, find a small place, and then have a job, so that I can live a stable life."
I didn't continue to talk to him about this topic, because I think everyone has their own ideas, and we can't impose our own ideas on others. So at that time, I changed the topic with him and continued to talk about other things.
In fact, when it comes to being tired, who doesn't? Everyone is very tired, everyone is very hard. People live in this world. As long as you work hard, you will be very tired.
The effort in life is that you want more things, but as long as you want to have what you want, you have to work hard, and you will feel very tired at this time.
I don't know if you have seen some video materials about Hengshui. I was really shocked when I was watching the video materials of Hengshui. I asked myself, I can't work as hard as others, and I can't work as hard as others, so my university is a college.
Of course, I still think my university is a very good school. During his three years in college, he taught me a lot, taught me how to understand this society and the world from different perspectives, and taught me to look at problems and society from different perspectives.
People are equal, but society is realistic, which is a realistic problem that cannot be questioned. For example, 985,265,438+065,438+0 college students have more resources than our junior college students.
But think about it, when people have these resources, high school works so hard. Did you do it? I didn't do it. I didn't work as hard as they did in high school. So I will only envy the students of 985,265,438+065,438+0, not others.
Because I know for myself that I didn't have others to work hard in high school. So now when I submit my resume to find a job, I can only find a job with a college degree. I can't find a job with a bachelor's degree, and I can't find a job with a master's degree.
So at this time, you will find that your lack of efforts will become the real problem now, hitting you one by one. When these problems hit you, some people are more frustrated and brave, stand up bravely and solve these problems one by one, while others will only be knocked down by one punch and say a few words when lying on the ground. I don't want to work hard, I'm too tired.
But the problem you are facing now, you feel tired now, but isn't that the result of your not working hard at the beginning? If you don't work hard now, make another salted fish. The final result is that you can only sigh silently when you encounter problems, or continue to say that I am too tired and still don't want to work hard.
How can there be people who are not tired in this society? Most people are tired. Aren't you tired of seeing the takeaway brother on the street? Or the courier brother is not tired, he is very tired.
The takeaway brother has to deliver this meal to the customer quickly, because the customer will be unhappy if it is overtime. The courier brother has to deliver all the tasks today, otherwise the customers will be dissatisfied.
Aren't your parents tired? They are also very tired. They didn't know anything when they gave birth to you and raised you, but when they gave birth to you, they had to shoulder the responsibility of parents and raise you to such a big age.
Let's stop saying that we are tired and then use this word to cover up our unwillingness to work hard.
You can be tired in life, but don't let it be synonymous with your escape, and don't let it be synonymous with your unwillingness to work hard.
When we envy others that they have a lot of resources, the first thing we should do is not envy, but ask ourselves if we have worked as hard as others.
You say that you are tired now, and you say that you don't want to work hard now, but when you encounter problems in the future, you will only feel regret and helplessness at that time.
Of course, everyone has their own ideas. I never restrict others' ideas, and I never resist others' ideas, because I think everyone in this world is an independent individual, and I can't restrict others' ideas and actions.
But you can't get tired when you encounter some difficulties and don't want to work hard. We can use these to escape the real problem and use these to anesthetize ourselves.
I think our life should be brave, positive, sunny, optimistic and cheerful, instead of running away, struggling and regretting when encountering problems.
The road of life is not paved by others, but always by yourself. Every effort you are making now is laying bricks and tiles for the road under your feet.
If you feel that your life is very tired, if you feel that your current efforts are very tired, then please go to the street to have a look. The taxi at midnight 12 o'clock is still soliciting customers. When you take out the taxi software, you will find that you can still get a lot of taxis online in the city center. Do you still feel tired at this time?
Everyone is running for life, and everyone is tired for life. What qualifications do you have to shout tired and don't want to work hard here?
Don't complain that you are not born well, your parents are not rich, and you are not a rich second generation. These are not the main things.
Your road is in your own hands, not in others' hands? At best, others can only give you a push and a hand on your way forward, but whether you can go down this road, or how far you can go and how high you can climb depends on yourself.
We can feel that our life is very tired, and we can also feel that your current efforts are very hard and tired, but we must not let the hardships of life and the unwillingness of fate knock us down.
The value of life is to achieve your goal, not to knock it down with a tired word.
If you envy those successful people, then from now on, work hard and strive hard to bring your life closer to successful people, instead of complaining about others here.
Complaining will always bring more helplessness, but hard work will bring success.
Put your complaining time and energy into hard work. At this time, you will find that your life is slowly approaching the winner.
Come on, young man, society is realistic, but life is beautiful. Fate will not disappoint those who work hard, and he will eventually turn your efforts into the flower of success in your life.