1 there is a topic: what are the reasons that you didn't understand until you were an adult?
A high praise replied: "The more people grow up, the more things they experience, and the more they find that everything is contrary to their wishes. This is a long preparation before the surprise." In life, it is inevitable that we will experience such a moment: obviously we work hard, but the result is not satisfactory. The more you try your best, the more it backfires.
But that's life. You never know what kind of answer it will give you until the last moment.
A writer once said: "Although it is difficult at present, this experience may have results in the future." On the long road of life, whether it is bitter or sweet, we must learn to applaud ourselves. Because on this long road, only you are your real ferryman. When things don't work out, applaud yourself, be more patient but do good, regardless of the future. You just have to work hard and leave the rest to time.
A university held a lecture, and the host asked: "How many people are confused about the future and can't find the direction of life?" As a result, more than three quarters of the people at the scene raised their hands. In fact, no matter at what stage, confusion is the normal state of life. Always follow the path you want to take, instead of regretting it years later.
At the age of 30, a friend resigned from his previous company and started a company to start his own business. I thought I could get a higher salary and do something I like better, but I didn't expect the company to go bankrupt after only a few months. But he didn't give up and still wanted to start a business. He runs a restaurant, learns to cook, looks for appearances everywhere, and goes to a farmer's market far away in the hot sun to buy ingredients. I opened a studio with my friends, took more than 20 subway buses every day, and then took three rounds of manpower to go to work in the suburbs 40 kilometers away. In the end, none of these things succeeded. After two years of this ordeal, he was disheartened and prepared to find a job, and sent more than a dozen resumes, but all of them fell into the sea. He started his own business from the media. In two or three years, his account has not improved. Looking at the bleak data in the background, he fell into deep confusion.
Each of us may experience a dark time. It was a day of hard work but no result. It was the day when I broke my head and couldn't find my way. The harder life is, the more you have to applaud yourself and cheer for life. We shed a lot of tears in the dark, and ran into the critical strike of life head on. We have envied others and doubted ourselves.
But there is a saying: "The withering and desolation of a flower can't ruin the whole spring, and a setback can't ruin a lifetime." In life, when there is wind and rain, there will always be rain. The so-called hope is not to forget to applaud yourself when you are desperate. Let yourself stick to your faith, believe that a blackbird has come down and believe in a bright future. To put it in a favorite way, some roads in life are doomed to be lonely and no one to accompany them. The more helpless you are, the more you must be strong.
When living in the dark, give yourself confidence; When encountering setbacks, cheer for yourself; Remember to applaud yourself when you are sad.
Light up the "watch" and get through every long night, and finally usher in the dawn.
In the tossing days after resigning, what he heard most was his mother's sigh and his father's earnest words: "You have to refuel!" "He can only go to the library and pretend to go to work every day. The surface wind is light and the clouds are light, and his heart has long been annihilated.
Countless sleepless nights, he blamed himself, why don't you do a good job and want to start a business? He asked himself, which direction should he go in his future life? Answering him, there will always be only the faint light of the street lamp outside the window and the passing wind.
Even if he is confused, he still wants to stick to it for a while. One day, his articles were brushed by many people, and his self-media finally improved. More and more people paid attention to it, and the brand began to look for him to cooperate.
The confusion of these five years has finally come to light. I have heard a saying that it is not the way but the time that can dissolve the darkness. People seem to be surrounded by high walls when they are in trouble. You can't rely on others forever, you can only find your own way and stick to it, and bravely wait for time to cure everything. When you have faith and keep going, time will naturally cross to the other side you yearn for.