Many of us will face the problem of subsidizing our parents' living expenses after we get married. In particular, families that prefer boys to girls, whether they are sisters or sisters, have this obsession in their hearts, and that is to help their parents, especially their younger brothers. It is also my sister's obligation for my brother to get married and buy a house. In my sister's heart, he is my brother, so it is natural to help him. Brothers and sisters are deeply in love, and helping their younger brothers is also helping themselves. My brother lives well, my sister is happy and my parents are happy. This is the greatest comfort to be a sister.
But our husband doesn't think so. We're married. Cut off the relationship with your family, especially when borrowing money, and be wary of your wife. In the husband's mind, money is earned by himself, and of course he doesn't want to spend it on his wife and brother. After all, making money is not easy. Understandable, but my husband is so heartless. Help, of course, just like we're married. Helping the family is just like helping brothers and sisters. We are related by blood and can help our wives and brothers within our power.
Faced with the help of my brothers and sisters, many husbands can't stand it, and they can't fight. Faced with this situation, it is recommended to choose divorce.
After we got married, we couldn't accept our wife. Faced with the fact that she had no reason to raise her brother, we had conflicts. This husband's pattern is too small, and it is recommended to divorce. In my husband's eyes, I have no obligation to raise my wife and brother, nor is it our responsibility. Personally, I think helping my wife and brother is helping ourselves. After all, it is brotherhood. My wife and brother are still young and need our help.
There are many examples around me. Many wives take up the responsibility of raising their younger brothers after marriage. Give my brother living expenses. In fact, it was the wife who saw her parents working too hard and wanted to help them. This is the only thing a daughter can do. After marriage, we are husband and wife, and there is a problem of common property. It is understandable to help some people.
As a husband, you should be generous. It is not easy to get rid of this bill now. There is no need to have a conflict with your wife and think about divorce. We can communicate with our wife in another way, that is, tell her that it is necessary to help our younger brother under the condition that we live a good life.
My wife and brother are too young, and my wife and parents have limited abilities. If you choose to get married, you have to bear the responsibility of wife and brother, that is, a few years. After all, everyone has difficulties. My wife and brother grow up to make money, and when they are independent, they will repay their sisters. We all say that brothers and sisters have deep feelings, so we should cherish this feeling.
As wives, after we got married. Take care of your small family, instead of putting mom's family first. After all, you are a husband for the rest of your life, but you should learn to balance the relationship between small families and everyone.
Our wives are very kind, especially wives who understand their parents' hearts. After marriage, you should live well in your own small family, instead of considering your parents' family. When we are strong, capable and economically powerful. Helping mom and brother is a trivial matter, so don't worry about your husband's disapproval. My husband doesn't agree to adopt my younger brother. It's just that we have less money and no ability. When we reach out and ask our husband for money, he will quarrel with us. Of course, we don't agree to help our parents. Everyone is selfish.
After marriage, we should be less involved in our parents' affairs. Go back to your mother's house and give your parents some pocket money. After we got married, we were guests at our parents' house. My husband and I are family. We just need to do something about our brother. Don't be a helper, after all, we need to run our own small family.
As a husband, don't quarrel with the wife who helps your brother. In fact, the wife is also a kind of helplessness. The wife was influenced by her parents since childhood and could not refuse to face her parents. After all, they are her closest relatives. Be more understanding and tolerant of your wife. A wife needs her husband's care more.