Before, everyone's answer was very consistent: "marry Han, marry Han, dress and eat."
In the era of underdeveloped technology and low productivity, it is difficult for women to survive on their own. Their purpose of looking for a man is simple, that is, to support their families.
But it's different now. Most women can earn their own money to support themselves, and the purpose of finding someone to marry has changed.
So, when dating, what do women "figure" men? The experience of three blind date girls gives you the answer.
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Blind date 1: Self-righteous, arrogant men will make women unbearable.
The old aunt in the office introduced the new Li Yue girl to her neighbors. She is a deep otaku and has no real job.
Li Yue girl in the mind is not satisfied. After meeting, the young man introduced to her surprised her unexpectedly.
That man's words and actions are so simple that any woman in her right mind can't stand it.
"In high school, we seemed to be in the same school and the same session. I took two exams and you took three.
But now that you are a graduate student, I don't mind that your education is lower than mine, as long as you earn more than mine. I'm unemployed and short of money. "
Rao is the best girl, and she also wants to get angry on the spot: "Who are these people? He has no money and no job, and he hates others. Where did he come from? "
The most uncomfortable thing for Li Yue is that she doesn't want to make a blind date, but she can't hide from human feelings, so she has to be wronged, and she feels wronged when she wants to come.
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Blind date 2: Men who have no opinions and are "Ma Bao" make women afraid to associate at all.
Liu Yuan said that she was a woman without ambition. She does not seek fame or profit, but only wants to form a happy little family, with three meals and four seasons.
But she is busy with work all day, leaving early and returning late, and the people she contacts every day are those particularly boring male colleagues in the company cubicle.
It's really depressing to face them for more than ten hours every day and see them at home at night.
Liu Yuan, a single male colleague of the company, is determined not to consider developing them into partners.
However, the scope of her own contacts is too narrow, and there are few opportunities to find the right person. She can only rely on the blind date curve to save the country.
In order to find the right life partner, Liu Yuan didn't have ten blind dates, but twice.
The wonderful things she encountered on blind date are simply too numerous to mention.
One of the blind date men came with his parents. No sooner had he sat down than his father spoke:
"Do you drive yourself or take the bus or subway to work now?"
"I'll take the subway first and then take the bus."
"If you become my daughter-in-law, what subway bus! There are two cars in my family. You can drive any one. Do you have a driver's license? "
"I have."
At that moment, Liu Yuan really couldn't help laughing. His house is so funny that she won't even lend her the car, so she agreed to marry her son, right?
Blind date, you have to bring your parents. To what extent did that boy get the "mother treasure"? It is hard to imagine that she is looking for a life partner, not someone else's "mother".
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Blind date 3: Men and women who are selfish and don't care about each other's feelings avoid it.
Wang Fang met a particularly wonderful blind date, which opened her eyes.
On that day, the blind date and Du Mou met at a barbecue restaurant, and the location was selected by the man.
At first, Wang Fang was a little confused. Why do they arrange blind dates in smoky barbecue shops? Later, after eating and eating, she realized Du Mou's real intention.
As usual, the two exchanged pleasantries and then sat in their seats. At this time, the waiter brought white water and a menu. Du was polite and humble, and ordered the specialty of this store, Snowflake Beef.
When Wang Fang ordered this, Du Mou shook his head like a rattle, pointing out that this beef was not as good as the store boasted. It's not imported beef at all. It's specially used for slaughtering customers.
After the episode, the initiative to order food naturally fell to Du Mou. With a stroke of his pen, he ordered what is said to be the real five specialties of the store.
"Pork intestines, bitter intestines, leeks, pork belly, cicada pupa".
After a meal, Wang Fang ate less than three pieces of roasted pork belly in total, and said no more than three sentences together. It was really the blind date Du Mou who was so fierce that she was scared.
Du Mou said that he moved his hand, took a piece of perilla leaf, put two pieces of minced garlic, picked up a piece of roast pig's large intestine and wrapped it in it, then stuffed it into his mouth and held it against his mouth.
He nodded while chewing, and mumbled, "Delicious, that's the taste."
After dinner, Wang Fang didn't take two bites. When it was time to check out, Du Mou actually only took out half of the money and said that he wanted to be with her. Wang Fang was completely "served" at this time.
I feel that Du Mou came here to meet her and help him share the bill. She has never seen such a stingy and selfish man!
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