Many parents send their children to interest classes, and two things are at work. The first is to follow the trend, and the second is vanity. And why we should cultivate children's interest is not clear. Even I have seen many parents complain to their children: You see how well their children learn, and they won the prize in the exam. Why don't I want to go to your house? I got up so early to send you to class, and I deserve to suffer. A class cost me thousands!

Do you think that if you say this, children will cherish it and practice hard?

In fact, to let children learn well is not just to say or teach, but to let children understand what is the significance of doing so, and what is the lack of children?

1, let the children know the purpose of the activity.

Children's persistence is closely related to whether they can cultivate self-awareness when they are young. If they don't know the purpose of the activity, the action is often impromptu and random. It is difficult to overcome the difficulties and stick to it.

Therefore, in order to enable children to engage in an activity for a long time and achieve the goal of "never forgetting the original intention and always being virtuous", parents should let their children know the purpose of the activity before the activity and encourage them to stick to it and achieve the goal.

2. Let the children work independently

In order to create an independent activity environment for children, they often need to overcome various difficulties in the process of activities. At the same time, their willpower will be enhanced. Parents don't have to rush to help their children if they are in trouble. They should wait and let the children solve it themselves. Children will feel satisfied when they overcome difficulties. In this process, their courage and confidence in overcoming difficulties have also increased.

3. Cultivate children's persistence in various activities.

Only in different sports activities and in the process of overcoming difficulties many times can children's perseverance be gradually formed and cultivated. Parents can often organize their children to participate in games, study, labor and other activities that require certain efforts to exercise their perseverance and perseverance.

4. Encourage children in time.

When children show progress in activities, parents should give timely and appropriate affirmation and praise. Parents' praise can boost children's morale and confidence. When children can't finish the plan, parents should analyze the situation in detail, and don't say "I know you can't finish the task" or "I said you haven't had sex for a long time" for a long time, which will increase their frustration and easily make them lose confidence.

Parents should learn to guide.

Nowadays, the fast-paced lifestyle has reduced the patience of the public a little, blindly demanding speed, convenience and relaxation, never taking elevators, never taking escalators, and never running banks for problems that can be solved online, such as water, electricity and gas bills; Over time, many adults will also lack patience, which exerts a subtle influence on children and wears away their patience.

Therefore, for children who lack perseverance to do things halfway, in daily life, parents should take the initiative to provide more opportunities for their children to share some things they can do; For example, doing housework makes children realize their sense of responsibility as family members.

Let children have the right to choose what they like to do and what they are interested in, and this is not a decision of achievement. It may be necessary to keep trying to determine whether they are interested in that matter.

When children sometimes really can't persist, they should be encouraged to complete at least a certain stage before making plans, and they should not give up immediately because of temporary frustration. At the same time, it is necessary to ensure children's full free play and rest time. After all, relaxation is moderate, and the combination of work and rest is more conducive to children's physical and mental development. To train children to stick to one thing, we need to stimulate their initiative, not to implement it step by step and mechanically.

Education is not a once-and-for-all thing. Parents should set an example and create a good educational environment for their children. Don't always use their busy work as an excuse not to participate in any "game activities" related to children.

It is worth noting that when parents cultivate their children's willpower, they need to fully consider their different psychological characteristics. Don't be too strong on introverted boys. It is necessary to strengthen the cultivation of children's decisiveness and flexibility, and cultivate children's self-control, courage and perseverance: for extroverted children, patience and calmness need to be cultivated.