A few years ago, Sister Hui made a well-known boyfriend. In order to facilitate Huijie's work, her boyfriend rented a house only 10 minutes' walk from her company, and he drove to the company for more than an hour.
Sister Hui used to eat irregularly and gradually got stomach trouble. Since she was with her boyfriend, he would go to the market early every weekend to buy local fresh chicken and vegetables and cook them for Huijie in various ways. Sister Hui said she wanted to eat online celebrity cake. Her boyfriend got off work at night, and it was raining heavily outside, but she drove to buy them rain or shine.
What is even more rare is that during their relationship, Huijie's mother suddenly fell ill, and the surgery and hospitalization expenses cost a total of 50,000 to 60,000 yuan. Although Sister Hui has graduated for several years, she has no money at all. At that time, her boyfriend directly handed over all her savings after graduation to Hui Jie, totaling 60 thousand yuan, so that she could stay with her mother for treatment and earn money by herself.
A few months later, Sister Hui's mother basically recovered except that she could not do manual work. The girlfriends around him all envy him for having such a reliable boyfriend, but she whispered, "He is very good, but he is not my ideal type."
Her girlfriends advised her not to be ungrateful, so she didn't really pay much. Sister Hui felt very wronged and chatted with me alone at night. She said that others don't know me, and neither do you? I've been looking for something with better economic conditions, so that I can stop working so hard for my life.
02
Hui Jie and I are fellow villagers and go to college in the same city. I am a freshman and she is a senior. I am familiar with working in the same city after graduation.
Huijie's mother is in poor health, and her father works alone in the town. However, Huijie studied hard and was beautiful. There were many people chasing her at that time. What she wants is a tall and handsome man, and the economic conditions can't be too bad. She can settle in the city where she works and want to spend her life with such a man. This is also the dream of all girls.
But fate will not arrange it this way. I am getting older and older, and my family is urging me. Then I met my boyfriend at a dinner party.
My boyfriend is very satisfied with her, and he is really good to her after being together. He is a reliable person, but Huijie is proud and thinks his family is too ordinary. If they buy a house in a first-tier city alone, it will be too difficult in a short time. Therefore, this has become a knot in my heart.
03
Life cannot be perfect. I thought life would be so peaceful. One night, Sister Hui said that she had recently met a project manager. The man is not only handsome, but also enviable for driving hundreds of thousands of BMWs. More importantly, he has a good impression on her, praises her for her beauty and intelligence, and is extravagant with her. Only by seeing her twice can he give such an expensive gift. Only in this way can a man make his life worry-free, which is his ideal type.
Sister Hui quickly broke up with her boyfriend at that time and moved out. We all advised her not to be impulsive, but she has made up her mind and we can't say anything but wish her happiness.
Later, everyone's life became busier and busier, and their contact became less and less. Later, I heard that Huijie was unhappy. At first, the man was generous to her, and they were very sweet. Later, Huijie became pregnant and her stomach became bigger and bigger. Under pressure, the man married him
However, after marriage, the husband is very cold, often staying out for the night, and his temper is still very grumpy after returning home. Sister Hui didn't even know her husband's whereabouts, and even dared not ask. Even the sick husband seldom cares about greetings. Her mother-in-law is strong, but she looks down on her and loves her grandson. Her son has a little cold. Mother-in-law just swears, and Huijie lives a passive life in Nuo Nuo.
Sister Hui's mother is seriously ill. She asked her husband to accompany her back, but his attitude was irrelevant. Sister Hui felt cold and remembered her boyfriend's kindness. Even every time the husband and wife quarrel, the husband is abusive and satirizes her vanity. He chose to stay with him for money and a quality life, not out of sincerity. If she was not a child, she would never marry her.
? Sister Hui said that she now lives a carefree life with a house and a car, but she doesn't have the warmth and happiness in Keno's big house. She regrets and wants to end this cold marriage, but her mother-in-law's attitude is very obvious. Divorce is ok. Children must stay and leave home clean. She can't bear to part with her young children. She spends all day in torment and wandering, always crying at night, and her sadness hangs on her face.
? Hui Jie and her boyfriend's mutual friend said that after Hui Jie broke up with him decisively, he went back to his hometown to start a loan business. Although it is very hard, it is good to have some results in a few years. On the way to start a business, he met a girl he liked, and they got married and had children. In recent years, the company has also developed better and better. Now it is famous in the local area, and the family lives a thriving life.
04
It's true that you want to live a high quality life and marry a better man. But when a man wants to marry a rich man and take a shortcut, he will do whatever it takes to achieve his goal. When the three views are not correct, he is most likely to meet someone who plays with you, and it is impossible to meet a man who really wants to live with you. Imagine that any man will marry a woman who is bent on opening his money and is full of calculations.
There is no denying that money is really important, but there are some things in this world that money can't buy, such as true feelings. A person only thinks about money and fame, regardless of sincerity and feelings, and does whatever it takes to achieve his goal. Such people often end up with nothing. On the other hand, people who really treat their feelings, constantly improve themselves and do things in a down-to-earth manner finally live their ideal life and meet their lifelong partners.