When we come into this world hungry, we will accept a brand-new family and a brand-new life from this moment on. We can't change or even choose your parents. What we can do is to accept this brand-new family structure, use our energy to broaden the trajectory of life and explore unknown areas instead of complaining.
There are some friends around me who always look for objective factors when they encounter problems, and never look for problems on themselves. For example, I didn't do well in this exam because the teacher didn't bet on the topic correctly; I have no motivation to work because of the bad atmosphere and environment in the office; He is very powerful and has a rich father; She has so many houses, unlike me sleeping in one room, and so on. I always take others' success for granted, and my own failure is for a reason. If you meet such a person, please stay away from him, because his negative energy will infect you.
In this world, the resources and information of each of us are not equal, so we will create a colorful world. Each of us plays a different life, but we are all independent individuals in our own world. Tolstoy wrote in Anna karenin, "All happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." We can't choose our origins, but we can choose our careers, our attitudes towards life and the lifestyle we want. In any case, a positive and optimistic life without complaining is the correct way for us to face difficulties and adversity.
This is the best time and the worst time. Now is an era of information explosion. If we randomly search for directions on the website, there will be hundreds of messages. We can learn knowledge in unknown fields at will on the website, and we can acquire different kinds of skills. However, each of us is also in an extremely open and transparent position because of the Internet. Anyone can express their opinions on information disclosure. As the saying goes, seven feet long, beware of a three-inch golden tongue; There is Longquan on the tongue, but killing people does not see blood.
No matter how perfect and powerful you are, there will always be people who don't like you and even attack you with words. At this time, what we have to do is not to defend, but to balance our emotions. Some people are trash cans. The closer you are to them, the greater your influence, so the best way to deal with them is to avoid them. To be the best of ourselves, we don't exist to please others, but live for ourselves. None of us is RMB, so we can't be liked by everyone.
What I said was malicious and offensive comments, not constructive suggestions or opinions. No matter what stage we are in life, we are racing against ourselves. Those malicious verbal attacks are just obstacles to your progress. The more you care, the harder it is to move forward. If a person stands on the first floor, he will see more rubbish on the ground. On the other hand, if you stand at the top of a skyscraper, all you see is beautiful scenery. In other words, your mode determines your thinking mode. Never mind other people's opinions, continuous improvement is our ultimate goal.
One of the things we do most in our life is to choose schools, majors and occupations. Since junior high school, friends around us have gradually had differences with us. I have many interesting friends around me. Xiaofeng is my junior high school classmate. At the age when we studied hard and endorsed hard, he chose to drop out of school and travel away from home without hesitation. 10 years later, after graduating from college, we began to apply for resumes to find jobs, and Xiaofeng has become a famous local small boss contractor. In the past ten years, we have faced and accepted the education of the school, but Xiaofeng is facing the baptism of society and the heavy pressure from all walks of life. If you want to say which choice is correct, then I think the answer is not correct. If I drop out of junior high school and travel, I don't think I will take this step until I die. Of course, I will envy Xiaofeng's achievements and wealth at this time, but I don't regret my ten years of study at school.
At the moment when the college entrance examination results came out, each of us began to deviate from each other's lives. We will choose different schools and cities, and we will face future career choices and development after graduation. Some people choose to work hard in Beishangguang, while others choose to live a comfortable life of petty bourgeoisie in their hometown. We can't judge which life is better, because everyone's pursuit is different, and what suits them is the best.
I hope that in this life, I can find the love of my life and spend my life in the way I like, so that I can be safe.