Yes, yes, if you only know what to ask others to do for you, then this relationship will be particularly tiring and troublesome, and you can only control yourself, so what you do is your own decision, right? What if you have to force others to do it for you? He has his own ideas. What if he doesn't want to? Do you think, if you are controlled by others, will you be particularly happy? Definitely not. When you are loved, it is a particularly happy feeling, then you have the ability to love others, which is also a very good experience.