Personally, I think marriage is very important, and marriage here also includes age, so I don't think it is appropriate to marry a man who is eleven years older than myself. First, marry a man one year older than yourself. He has experienced more things than you, so his ideas will be different from yours, including his three views, which will cause great trouble to his later marriage life. You will have different views on many things, and there will be many contradictions in your life. And if you marry a man who is eleven years older than yourself, you will be discriminated against by others and even not understood by your family. This will be very stressful. Moreover, the difference between two people is eleven years old, and there will be a gap in physical condition, including the desire and ability for sex, which will cause trouble for the harmonious life in the future. So I don't think it's good to marry a man eleven years older than myself. To sum up, hope to adopt.