Here are two articles for reference, but you should write your own composition ~ ~ and keep a good distance. A group of hedgehogs snuggled up to each other to keep warm, but the spikes used for self-defense on weekdays became a sharp weapon to hinder the body. After a commotion, they finally found the best distance from each other, which is warm and safe without hurting each other. Too far away, lonely; Too close, easy to get hurt: this is what people often say "hedgehog theory". It is said in "Augmented Xianwen": "Words are not true gentlemen, but the prescription is strong men." "Good" means "practical". So, what is "good"? To put it bluntly, it is a word-degree, which is to grasp the appropriate distance. In terms of types, distance includes natural distance and psychological distance; As far as the objects involved are concerned, it contains many categories, such as closeness, beauty and ugliness, whole and part, personality commonality and so on. "We are separated from Wan Li, and each is at the end of the day" is about distance, "Climbing the East Mountain is a path, and climbing Mount Tai is a small world" is about competition, "Poor people don't ask in the street, rich people have distant relatives at the foot of the mountain" is about intimacy, "It's hard to paint a tiger's skin and bones, but people don't know their faces" is about phenomenon and essence, and "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain" is about. Proper distance will give each other a sense of security. If there is a young man and a young woman sitting on a bench in the park, the woman is sitting in danger, and the man is sitting at the other end of the chair with his ass hanging, this must be the object he just met in the sixties and seventies; If they are just doing what they are doing with peace of mind through one or two bodies, they are probably two strangers; If they sit together, only half a body apart, the relationship must be closer; And if a young woman leans her head on a man's shoulder, it must be a couple. You see, the natural distance shows their different emotional depths, and this distance will make them feel safe with each other. If you change this distance at will, I'm afraid the other party will feel embarrassed and embarrassed, even a little strange. Distance affects each other's feelings. In ancient times, emperors always pretended to be the center of the world. There is an insurmountable distance between courtiers and emperors. The courtiers are in "your majesty" ("chasing" means ladder), and the emperor is on it. In this contrast, the majesty of the emperor is highlighted, so there is the fear of "accompanying the king like a tiger" and walking on thin ice. This is similar to the situation of interrogating prisoners. Unscrupulous officials live under the "hanging mirror" and exclaim "tell the truth!" Coupled with the "mighty" sound coming from the ear, the general "unruly" has already scared away the second soul. This is a trick used by the ancients and is not worthy of praise. But in daily life, we must shorten the psychological distance through face-to-face equal dialogue between teachers and students; When the elders say "Lao Zi ……", if the "Lao Zi" who oppresses people by status is removed, the result will certainly not be so bad; The boss changed "come to my office" to "I'll wait for you in my office", and the atmosphere must be much more relaxed; Less polite words and more sincere words between friends must feel a lot more cordial; ..... Distance has something to do with emotion, and "Far fragrance is near stink" and "Getting married is better than leaving" are all popular and vivid interpretations. Distance affects beauty. Beauty is beautiful, and the moon is bright, because we are at an appropriate distance. If someone takes a magnifying glass to observe Jia Baoyu, whose face is like a mid-autumn moon and whose color is like a spring flower, or takes a microscope to observe his boss's daughter, "Too red for ink and too white for powder", the result will definitely surprise you and even make you feel ugly. In the poet's imagination, there were "lonely Chang 'e dancing with wide sleeves" and "WU GANG holding out osmanthus wine", but when the Apollo spacecraft arrived, the cold reality broke our dream-the moon was so desolate. What a wonderful imagination it is to "look far and wide, and all rivers run into the sea", but only when we know the truth can we know that space is not so romantic. Black holes open their mouths to devour all the invading matter, and deadly rays travel through the universe. It is precisely because of our special position that our earth keeps a proper distance from other planets that a vibrant miracle appears. This is an inevitable accident! Walking too close, Mona Lisa also lost her mystery; If you are too far away, flowers will be abstracted without beauty. The progress of science is worthy of recognition, but life has given us profound enlightenment: beauty often comes from a proper distance. Distance affects the cognition of things. "Truth is fallacy. "If we can't reach the highest peak, we will be covered by floating clouds. If you can't jump out of the mountain, you won't know the true face of Lushan Mountain. If we can't escape from the concrete garden, we can't abstract the essence of things; If you can't explore deeply, you can't understand the meaning of things. Distance exists everywhere in life and embodies truth, goodness and beauty. Understanding distance is a profound knowledge, and grasping distance is an art full of wisdom! = = = = = = = = = = = = = Seize the time and strive for the future. From birth, to becoming a child, to becoming a youth, to being old, and finally to dying, it is a gradual process. In the final analysis, it is the result of time. Time is like an invisible catalyst, which makes everything in the world change all the time, and nothing can be divorced from this law. And time, like an "ecstasy", makes everything change unconsciously. People often shout, "I am young and I have capital. "They do nothing all day and live a wandering life. However, when they wake up one day and find that they are no longer young, they have nothing to do at this time, which is painful, because the lost time will never come back. Confucius, an ancient sage, once said: "The deceased is like a husband, staying up all night. "Indeed, time flies like water, and what is in front of us will become history in an instant. Life is only a few short decades, which is insignificant for the long history of human development. However, we can use these short decades to create infinite brilliant achievements, which is the greatest value of life. Therefore, we must seize this short life, work hard and create brilliance, so that when we are old. In this way, we won't waste our lives. In Sweden, babies born must register their own citizenship cards to show the difference. Every couple will fill in the "financial situation" column of the form with "time". Because they all think that time is God's gift to everyone, or wealth, which is the fairest. Whether you are rich or poor, you can have the same time. Some people regard time as useless, disdain time, and finally become really useless people. Others regard time as wealth, and in the end, time will double his wealth. Time is a strange thing. The meaner you are to it, the more generous it will be to you. The more generous you are to it, the meaner it is to you. The more people cherish time as gold, the easier it is to become arrogant among people. People who count time by minutes always spend 59 times more time than those who count time by hours. Mr. Lu Xun spent all other people's coffee drinking time at work, which made him brilliant later. Time is more important for us at school. If we can recite one or two formulas or one or two words at rest and recall what we learned that day before going to bed, perhaps the progress will be "gradual" or even insignificant. However, once accumulated to a certain extent, the effect will be amazing. Therefore, we should not despise ordinary minutes, but seize them tightly and use them to strive for future glory.