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Extract code: i2pq title: Call again.

Author: [America] Shirley? Tejkl

Translator: Wang Jin

Douban score: 6.8

Press: CITIC Publishing Group

Publication year: 20 17-8- 1

Page number: 4 1 1

Content introduction:

Editor's recommendation

Do you often escape to the virtual world and constantly whitewash yourself on the Internet?

Do you often feel bored suddenly, and you have to pick up your mobile phone and look around from time to time?

When avoiding embarrassment, do you often prefer sending messages and writing emails to calling?

Maybe when you win on your knees, you have forgotten how to start a sincere conversation!

Shirley, the author of Jin Wen's award-winning work "Group Loneliness"? Turkel's new work!

Kevin? Kelly recommended it!

Hu Yong, Jiang Qiping, Peng Lan, Wan Weigang, Wang Yuquan and Zhou Kui jointly recommend it!

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We live in a world surrounded by technology, and we communicate all the time. In order to be "always online", we sacrificed face-to-face conversation. We deviate from each other, but we are close to mobile phones, and our hearts are always elsewhere. If we want to empathize, grow, love and be loved, gain the ability to measure ourselves or others, and fully understand and integrate into the world around us, we must be able to speak. Speaking is the most human and humane thing we do. We stay away from face-to-face conversations because we are passionate about technology. However, it turns out that in the field of education, conversation is the best way to communicate; In the workplace, speaking is good for the company's profit.

The cost of staying away from conversation can be seen everywhere. At the dinner table, children use mobile phones to compete for their parents' attention; Friends have learned new strategies and know how to keep the conversation going when people around them often check their mobile phones. At work, we retire in front of the computer and forget that the conversation next to the water cooler will improve our work efficiency. We will share other people's opinions online, which is a strategy to avoid real conflicts and solve problems face to face in public places. We are always online and regard solitude as a problem that technology should solve. The self-dialogue in loneliness and introspection is on the verge of extinction.

Now we are at a critical moment. Fortunately, we are adaptable. When we provide a dialogue space for ourselves and our children, we will get to know each other and the people around us better, and we may rediscover ourselves. After years of research, Shirley? Turkel put forward the reasons for supporting the conversation. Technology has influenced our empathy, which is closely related to all aspects of life. However, we can seize the opportunity: the dialogue is there, waiting for us to pick it up. The interpersonal relationship in digital society is becoming more and more alienated, and the solution is talk therapy.

About the author:

Shirley. Sherry Turkle, professor of sociology at MIT, director of MIT Center for Science, Technology and Self-innovation, Ph.D. in Sociology and Personality Psychology at Harvard University, clinical psychologist, academician of American College of Arts and Sciences, winner of Harvard Centennial Medal, and his research fields involve science and technology, society, artificial intelligence, ego and psychology. Decades of in-depth research on the relationship between people and technology has won Turkel the title of "Margaret in the field of network culture". Meade and Freud are in the field of technology, and conscience is in the field of technology. He is the author of Second Self, Virtual Avatar and Group Loneliness.