2, don't think too much, don't expect too much, don't plan too much. Live a good life, only live a good life every day, and live a good life will have an answer.

3, think for yourself in advance, don't be afraid to offend others and lose everything, taking care of your own mood is more important than taking care of others' emotions.

4, don't take anyone too seriously, don't pin your hopes on others, if one day you feel that everything depends on yourself and everything has hope and hope, why bother yourself?

It really doesn't matter what others think of me. I'm not interested in them anyway.

6, don't aim too high, always want to get ahead, fantasize about success one day every day and be envied by others. Even if you succeed, no one will envy you, only be jealous and attack you behind your back. Without those distant dreams, my heart will be much easier.

7. A person has no worries. The most important thing is to have a quiet heart. You should calm your mind and have no distractions. As long as you calm down, everything will be fine. It's difficult to do it at first, but take silence as your goal. The quieter and quieter you are, the less trouble you have.

8. Life is no big deal. Eat well, sleep well and do your own thing well. Most things are nothing.

9. Don't be happy about things, don't feel sorry for yourself, no matter what happens, you can quickly recover your ability to calm down. I think this person's life will be farther and farther away from trouble.

1 1, life is everywhere, the present is everything, life is not others, you are yourself. Love life, cherish the present, live hard, do what you want, and everything else can be done.

1, trying to make money.

If you have nothing to do, think more about ways to make money and take action.

Money can solve 90% of the problems. Making money can give you a sense of accomplishment. With money, you can win the respect of your family, friends and everyone around you, and you can also gain status.

2. Manage yourself carefully.

Use your spare time to exercise, learn new knowledge and skills, and improve your earning power.

If you exercise well, you will get less sick. If you don't exercise well, you will become a sick seedling and it is difficult to be happy.

Sticking to running your own business for a long time will make you better and better, and money and status will get closer and closer to you. All kinds of troubles will be solved.

3. Be self-aware and only do what you can.

It is a very troublesome thing for a person to "have a girl's life but a young lady's heart". People are condemned every day. Such people live in the world, except for troubles, and basically have no happy time.

If you aim too high, you will be confused if you lose, and you will never have a strong will. From then on, you will be ruined and your life will be full of troubles.

4. Pay attention to and understand human nature.

In this way, when you do things, think about problems and make decisions, you will consider them from the perspective of human nature. With such a good habit, you will get along with people around you more smoothly, reduce a lot of troubles and benefit from it.

5. Stay away from garbage people, and don't intersect with people whose cognitive abilities are too different.

These garbage people will only ruin your mood and will not bring you any benefits. Dealing with them will only add more trouble to you.

You will feel very tired when you associate with people whose cognitive ability is too different. Their thinking angle is too different from yours, and conflicts and disputes are inevitable.

So if you can avoid it, you will feel much better.

6. Cultivate healthy ways of entertainment.

Take part in running, swimming, going to the gym, playing badminton and other sports. Exercise will clear your brain and produce dopamine, which will make you feel very happy and even fall in love. Exercise is a good way to get rid of troubles.

Taking videos, writing articles and answering questions from the media are also healthy forms of entertainment. Writing some words and reflecting on yourself every day is good for physical and mental health and can also help you make progress.

While entertaining, the media platform will also give you some income, make money, and naturally feel much better.

I said six things, and those who can do these six things will have less trouble.

1 improve the ability to make money, and support a lot! No matter when money is the most important thing, your pockets are bulging, you speak with confidence, and your life is worry-free!

Working hard in my own field, my daughter-in-law has become a woman for many years, and life has become a poem!

But in today's society, there are too many uncertain factors, which brings great pressure to people, so it is necessary to be a sideline with a long profit value cycle!

Plus make some investments in stocks, commercial insurance, etc. That's arrogant!

Don't have too much desire and don't blindly compare with others!

Can't let too many desires drag on the road and be restless all day! You will lose yourself and be busy with the needs of manufacturing all day!

Know yourself and yourself, fight a hundred battles, know who you are, and don't do anything beyond your personal ability!

If you don't pursue unrealistic goals, high can only be a burden and meaningless!

Envy others to drive luxury cars and live in villas!

Envy others to lie and earn, and earn a high salary as easy as blowing off dust!

We should leave blank, buffer and adjust our lives!

Don't always tighten a string, relax in time!

Everything is a cloud, and it is true that it is plain. As long as we actively create life and love life, we will leave the rest to God!

Running a life is like running a company, take precautions and start from the end! Everything will be comfortable and safe!

No matter what you do in life, you should plan ahead, plan ahead for a rainy day, make plans according to what kind of results you want to achieve, analyze rationally and step by step, so as to avoid making mistakes in busy work!

4 manage your own interpersonal relationships! Stay away from decadent people and things, make friends with positive energy, and cherish those who have the courage to correct their mistakes!

For those who say good things, just talk and don't practice, completely eliminate the circle of friends!

You can't always try to please others, and strive to improve your own value is the right way. You will always be your own noble, and it is useless to know anyone by yourself!

For friends, we should cut down the complexity regularly and keep the rest as a passbook!

Society is the most meaningful classroom, and understanding human nature is the most important passport! People seek advantages and avoid disadvantages! At any time, interest is the most important, so you must increase your communication code with your own value!

Some things can't judge a person's ability on the surface, maybe they are hidden and can't jump to conclusions. You must observe his past resume, living habits and friends!

You can't kill a person with one shot, people will change, and you won't be impressed for three days! I don't know what people have experienced, so I can't jump to conclusions!

Therefore, we must practice our ability to recognize people through various channels, and we will have less troubles if we don't entangle the mess of interpersonal relationships!

Shake hands with your mindfulness! Don't care about other people's eyes, live in other people's evaluation!

Be strict with yourself for unrealistic goals, high standards!

Subtract your life appropriately! Give up useless socializing, give up too much life and throw away everything that should be thrown away! Get out of the car gently and keep a clear head!

There is nothing much ado about nothing in the world! Don't think too complicated, be positive, complain less, be simple, and you will be happy and carefree!

7 Take good exercise! Health is the capital of revolution. Without health, everything is in vain! So insist on running in the morning and taking a walk after dinner!

Stick to staying up late, go to bed early and get up early! Eat well, keep healthy, be in good health, and have no troubles in life!

8 we must constantly improve our cognitive awareness, and we must not encounter problems and be at a loss! Always keep up with the times and never fall behind!

Don't force yourself too much, just let nature take its course!

9 Cultivate your hobbies! Find something to do for your life! Don't let yourself be idle. Immerse yourself in your love every day, you will lose a lot of messy things, and naturally there will be no troubles!

10 Stay out of children's affairs, their world is different from ours! It can not only cultivate their self-reliance ability, but also reduce all kinds of troubles brought by the generation gap!

1, do what you know, how much money you have, and what life you live.

2. Don't compare and envy other people's lives.

3. Work hard to make money. If you have more money, you will naturally have no worries.

4, reduce borrowing, borrowing is the root of trouble.

5. Breaking useless social interaction, the more complicated the relationship, the more trouble.

6, start from the bottom, don't entangle with bad people.

7. Know how to exchange interests and don't have illusions about others.

8. Don't be an honest man. Don't give in when it's time to fight for benefits.

9. When you are bullied, you must fight back and let the other party know that you are not easy to mess with.

10, put it down, put it down, a thing of the past, don't want to.

1 1, do not compete with the big environment and rules, do not complain, and actively respond to changes.

12, choose carefully and don't dig a hole for yourself.

13, don't be too emotional, be rational and cold-blooded.

14, pay attention to yourself, pay attention to today, and don't worry about what didn't happen.

15, learn to control your desires, and your troubles are all caused by your own strength.

16, first make yourself comfortable in this life, then consider the next generation.

17, keep healthy and happy, and learn to be ruthless.

18, save more money, money is the right to choose, there is more choice and less trouble.

19, see through human nature and don't talk about feelings and right and wrong.

20. Seek truth from facts. Don't deceive yourself.

First, don't compare, don't compare, don't compare, if a person lives healthily, there really isn't much demand, and many troubles come from excess vanity.

Second, it is better to have love. Nobody loves you and doesn't bother you It is more reliable to love yourself. Actually, I will counter it. I will give back to you according to your feelings for me, without giving my heart. Is there any trouble?

Third, don't have too many desires. Life is a bed, three meals in four seasons, and vegetarian food is enough. Don't have too many material requirements, at least not higher than personal ability.

Fourth, if you have time to learn a little psychology, you can control human nature more thoroughly. See through the truth of life, and you will understand the ins and outs of things. If you really don't struggle, there will be no trouble.

Life is rough, don't take it too seriously, sometimes cover your ears, often learn to shut up, and don't expect too much from others. Everyone loves himself the most, and no one will sacrifice himself to fulfill others.

Sixth, learn to be alone. The happiest time in life is to enjoy the space of being alone, not influenced by other people's emotions, immersed in your own world, eating casually, not even deliberately dressing up, super comfortable.

Seven, we must know that feelings are the product of interests. If you meet the right person, you are blessed. If you are not satisfied, don't be too demanding. When you are down and out, everything is wrong.

Eight, contact with people, there is a scale, strictly control the sense of boundaries, do not cross the border, and do not easily let others invade your territory. Only in this way can you be comfortable in interpersonal relationships without tension and discomfort.

If you have money, a lot of money can solve more than 90% of the troubles in life, so cut the crap and make money quickly.

Ten, life should have a sense of ceremony, don't live too shabby, at the important stage of life, you can reward yourself appropriately and make yourself feel worthy of being loved. It's really good!

Learn to be kind to others, learn to associate with others, and don't be too aggressive. When you treat the outside world gently, you will probably give it back to you in the same way, and your mentality will be much more balanced.

Cherish the people you love and cherish the fate between you and your lover. In your most difficult time, only they can help you out. Thanks for your support.

A: Even if life gives you a feather, you can make it into a beautiful feather duster.

Only by playing the trilogy of "gratitude, tolerance and self-discipline" can we live a carefree life.

First of all, be grateful.

1, gratitude, is the grace of dripping water, when the spring is rewarded.

2, gratitude, that is, the lamb should know how to kneel down and feed, and the crow should know how to feed back.

3, gratitude, that is, you respect me one foot, I respect you one foot.

4, gratitude, that is, come and not be indecent.

5, gratitude is kindness, although the blessing has not arrived, the disaster is far away, and the heart is evil. Although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away.

6. Gratitude means helping the poor.

7. Gratitude means remembering silence, warming each other's hearts. The silence of the sun brings global light, and the silence of flowers adorns the beautiful scenery of the four seasons.

Second, the packaging capacity.

1, tolerance, is the wisest man is foolish, and it is rare to be confused.

2, tolerance, that is, generosity, not haggle over every ounce, the prime minister can punt in his stomach.

3, tolerance, that is, the ruler is short, the inch is long, and he who sees through does not say anything.

4, tolerance, that is, be kind to others, tolerate others' mistakes, and do not persuade others to be kind without suffering.

5, tolerance, is to learn to let go, indifferent to let go, clouds disperse. If you can't let go of the past, don't expect a bright future.

6. Tolerance means discussing major issues, forgiving minor issues, not caring about right and wrong, and not turning over old accounts.

7. Tolerance means forgetting yesterday's unhappiness and welcoming today's heroism.

Third, self-discipline

1, self-discipline, that is, whoever shocks the world will be deeply silent for a long time (Nietzsche, western philosopher).

2, self-discipline, that is, all the wonderful things in life are caused by loneliness.

3, self-discipline, that is, a person sitting thinking about themselves, chatting regardless of people.

4, self-discipline, that is, you don't have to whip yourself.

5, self-discipline, that is, heaven commits iniquity, which is tolerable, and people commit iniquity and cannot live. Without convergence, life will end at any time.

6, self-discipline, that is, whatever the wind, I am still.

7, self-discipline, that is, can't eat the pain of the present, and commit the crime of mediocrity in the future.

8. Self-discipline means abundance of 3,000 yuan, while pessimism means floating clouds.

9. Self-discipline means keeping a low profile and being good at "saving".

10, self-discipline, that is, three rescues a day, advanced conscience brings about the constant transformation of life.

1 1, self-discipline, that is, when your talent can't support your ambition, you should consciously calm down and study. Take a nap now, and you will dream; Study at this moment and you will realize a dream. If you cannot change the past, try to change the future.

12, self-discipline, that is, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.

13, self-discipline, that is, the self-discipline is outstanding, and the lazy is outstanding.

Hold the breeze for the bright moon and choose fireworks for your life.

There are six keys to more or less trouble!

Living at home, every family has a difficult experience, and everyone has troubles in life. The only difference is how much trouble there is. People have joys and sorrows, and the moon has ups and downs. So, how can we stay away from troubles and embrace happiness in our daily work and life? At least six things should be done:

0 1 Make money.

Through the road of human growth, you and I have a common feeling. Youth is the happiest time in a person's life. At that time, we were always loved by our parents, and lived a happy time with clothes, food and no worries.

But after marriage, it seems that all the troubles have started one after another. Buying a house and a car, children going to school and providing for the elderly, one after another, are all related to money.

Then, since money can solve more than 90% of troubles, make good money. This is the best reason for us to reduce our troubles and run hard.

Improve yourself.

Natural selection, survival of the fittest If you want to live a good life, you must first strengthen yourself. When you are strong, you will have less troubles.

However, people's ability to live and work is acquired. Therefore, on the long road of life, you and I must work hard to manage ourselves and constantly recharge ourselves.

The times we live in are changing with each passing day. When we manage ourselves and keep charging, we can't relax for a moment.

For example, in the workplace life, it is a learning ability. If you don't study and recharge, you will be easily marginalized. Without the ability to create value for the enterprise, a good fate will not care for you and me, and there will be many troubles in the workplace.

03 reconciliation life.

To maintain inner happiness, we must learn to be good at reconciliation with life. On the long road of life, it is often not that life can't get past us, but that we can't get past our own hearts. Therefore, there are many troubles in life.

We always care too much about other people's comments. Many times, we always live in the eyes of others. Because of this, there are too many burdens in our hearts.

In fact, life is often like this: there is no discussion behind who, and there is no discussion behind who. As long as you walk straight, sit straight and walk straight, you don't have to care too much about other people's mouths, but live a relaxed and happy life. If you live like this, you will have less troubles.

Pay attention to choosing friends.

As a social person, everyone should obey the rules and make friends. However, in order to make your life happy, you must stay away from those garbage people who have different aspirations, are incompatible with Tao, are not speculative and are not suitable.

If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. Don't make friends. People who disagree with their three views don't make friends from the beginning. Try to keep a respectful distance from others. Otherwise, people will be injured and blocked.

In our daily life, we must keep a proper distance with others, and don't let everyone pour out their hearts and blindly believe everything. Even those who kiss again should respect the privacy of others. Otherwise, if you get too close, you will be hurt the most. This is why many of us don't want to live with our children even when we are old.

Don't compare with others.

Many of a person's troubles are compared, and this kind of comparative psychology will accompany you and me all my life.

We have come a long way since we got married. At first, it was better than occupation, to see whose unit was better and whose salary was higher. Later, it was better than a salary increase and a promotion to see who could eat and get along well; Later, I saw whose children went to college and found a good job, so they were better than their children.

In fact, ten fingers are hard to level. There are many differences between people due to family background, education level, congenital conditions, acquired efforts and other reasons, and some things are simply not comparable.

Therefore, if a person wants to live happily, it is enough to make two comparisons. One is to compare yourself with yourself and see if you have grown and progressed vertically; One is relatively healthy. Compared with peers, this comparison is wise and objective.

Those unrealistic and unreachable blind comparisons often fill our hearts with troubles and pains, and such comparisons should be removed.

Let your heart calm down.

As the saying goes, the contented are always happy. Why do contented people get happiness easily? The key is that contented people have a spirit and life style less than the upper class and more than the lower class.

In real life, in dealing with many things, we tend to aim too high. Once we fail to reach the set goal, we will feel painful inside.

In fact, the success or failure of many things is influenced by many forces and factors. It is also an acceptable choice to strive for the best result, avoid the worst result and accept the intermediate result.

For example, in the case of children going to college, strive for first-class prestigious schools, avoid Songshan falling out of the list, and accept medium grades. As long as the children work hard, we parents should accept it happily and never blame the children.

In short, there are six keys to worry more or less: make money well, improve yourself, reconcile life, pay attention to choosing friends, don't compare with others, calm down and learn to manage yourself well, so that your troubles will be less and your happiness will be more!

How can I live a life without troubles? Life is beautiful, because it is not always sunny and Wan Li is not always full of difficulties. First of all, let's review+read+understand the poem Dingfengbo.

We can't decide the ups and downs of life, but we can decide our own mentality. No matter how stormy it is, bamboo poles and shoes are lighter than horses; If you are upset and confused, do ordinary things.

There is a saying: Why is life unhappy? Just because I haven't read Su Dongpo. So when you encounter difficulties in life, you should learn from Su Dongpo.

We accept the beauty of life and should also bear the blow of life. Good or bad, it is the scenery in life.

First, don't give children a hard time, let alone make unrealistic demands on them. You'd better not live with them if you do it yourself. Second, if you don't have a hard time with yourself, you'd better cherish the future, cherish the rest of your life and live a good life. Third, be content. People who are content are always happy, especially the greatest happiness of the elderly. Fourth, let nature take its course, don't copy mechanically, don't teach others with your own ideas, and nothing will be transferred by your own will. Fifth, the elderly should look at the problem lightly, simply and incompletely, and the invisible troubles are unhappy. Sixth, don't focus on future generations, let alone send a message of greater hope. You must relax if you can relax. Lying in your arms forever may not be a good thing.

Half drunk, half awake, half stupid, half true, half false and half dreamy. Half love, half hate, half food and clothing, half purity, half evil and half out of control.