From the growth of Ivy League students, we learn: put down your airs and respect your children. Communicate with children on an equal footing, and don't mind children talking back, being calm and reasonable, instead of ordering children to act. Look at children's problems from their perspective. 2. Build a growth stage for children. Explore the differences between children and give them more opportunities to show themselves. Give advice and support to children's dream realization plan. Cultivate children's ability to speak and perform. 3. Cultivate children's communicative competence. Teach children to get along and cooperate with others-organize various interpersonal relationships and establish their own small circle. 4. Pass on the correct ideas to children from an early age-diligence, optimism, hard work, saving money is better than making money, etc. 5. Cultivate children's love, tolerance, honesty, responsibility, gratitude and independent thinking, self-reliance, insight and observation from an early age.