Song Xianggong was a famous honest elder in the Spring and Autumn Period. He pays attention to rules and never takes advantage of others. If he were an ordinary person, he should not starve to death. But he is an emperor and was born in troubled times. The others led the troops to the door. He wants to be a loyal elder, wait patiently for others to line up, blow dry his clothes and cheer up. So simple and honest, he can only accept a fiasco.
Yue Fei is actually an honest man. He is a god on the battlefield, and no one can defeat him from the front. But in officialdom, it is difficult for him to get along with this honest man. Although it is a good idea that he is bent on contributing to the country, we must know that everyone is selfish. Emma Wu Jun, also a famous anti-gold star, should find some beautiful girls to play with in his spare time. At this time, Yue Fei, who is dedicated to the country and does not seek any benefits for himself, is particularly abrupt.
Yue Fei's character is very similar to that of many honest people in the present society. After taking part in the work, he devoted himself to his work, basically forgot to eat and sleep, and wanted to devote his life to the company. Even so, in the face of Qin Gui, their contribution to the company is still looked down upon by the leaders, because Qin Gui is joking with the leaders, just like there is a saying in the novel, "It is better to accompany the leaders in a meeting than to shoot the breeze; It is better to get drunk with him than to chat with him at the meeting; It is better to accompany him to get drunk than to take bribes; It is better to sleep with him as a lesbian when he is corrupt and accepting bribes. "
Qin Gui did it. Except for a lesbian sleeping, Qin Gui, the traitor's benchmark, almost did it. Everything goes according to the mood of the leader, who mentioned, "I want to eat mutton." That night, I went to the village to steal sheep and made the leaders happy. Song Gaozong said: "I want to be an emperor. I don't want my father and brother to come back, but I still want my mother to come back. I want to live in peace with the ruler." Qin Gui's face also don't, let the current people scold him shameless, also want to successfully promote Song Hejin peace, after all, this is the requirement of the leadership.
And an honest man like Yue Fei who only knows how to work hard, if he doesn't meet Bole all his life, he can only be humiliated by a slave and die in a ditch. However, in today's grandiose society, how many boles will be waiting for you in the next place?
Compared with ancient times, the present society is even worse. This is not to say that honest people can't survive in this society, but that honest people have no room to survive in this society.
Xiao Liang was my childhood. When I was a child, his house was next door to mine. He is the standard kid next door. He has excellent academic performance since childhood and is horribly clever. Every time I get into trouble because of poor grades or being naughty outside, my mother will point at my nose and say, "Look at Xiao Liang, you learn from others. If you work half as hard, I won't have to worry so much. "
Then Xiao Liang is even worse. He has no pride of being a good student at all. He is very calm with every classmate and friend around him. In senior three, it was supposed to be the most stressful time to study, but when people asked him questions, he would sit patiently and answer them no matter how busy he was, which was simply the best way.
Later, I was successfully admitted to a famous university and now I have graduated smoothly. Everyone thinks that he will be the best among our classmates. Now he has disappeared from the crowd and has not even got along well with ordinary students. He chatted with him when everyone was having dinner the other day. He sighed and said, "When I was a child, my mother always told me to be a good boy, and I was obedient. I am a good boy in the mouth of all neighbors. " But this kind of thing will become a habit after a long time, and it will be difficult to win anything for yourself in the future. "
In real life, he is not the only one who likes Xiao Liang, and countless people like Xiao Liang live around us. They used to be honest children in fact. They were honest in the first half of their lives and were praised by teachers and parents. It was only in society that they discovered that it was difficult for honest people to gain a foothold in society.
Because this society has never been an honest society.
Society has always been a risk gate, and all people who step into society have to bear the risks brought by society.
Why many people who get along well in school are often entangled in society, because society is different from school. In school, the relationship between classmates is very simple, because there is no interest dispute between them. They have classes and play together, so they are very happy together. But society is different. Society is a real nature, and it can also be said to be an animal world. This is a world where the law of the jungle prevails, and honest people are used to it. Your friendship with your classmates at school will not work in society.
So how should newcomers in the workplace gain a foothold in society? Here I give you some suggestions for reference only.
First of all, you should learn to play tricks, which is the first step for you to gain a foothold in society. If you still stand there like a blank sheet of paper and let others see through you at a glance, you will only be played around by others in your life. Honest people should learn to be scheming, not to harm others, but to learn how to avoid being harmed. Only you can protect yourself, which is the foundation of a foothold in society.
The second point is that you should learn not to trust anyone. If you are still at school, your good buddies in your dormitory and classmates in your classroom will help you solve your problems with their heart, which is the friendship of classmates; But in the workplace, there are strangers all around, and they all have good wishes for promotion and salary increase. At this time, you are competitors, and you have no choice but to fight in secret. Therefore, at this time, you should be careful what you say to your colleagues, and you must not be careless. Once accidentally caught and stabbed to the leader, the previous efforts will be in vain.
You should beware of your leader. In today's society, there are basically two kinds of leaders. One is a very strict leader. This kind of leader is easier to get along with. At least he will put his request directly in front of you, and you will know whether you are advancing or retreating. Another kind of leadership is more difficult to deal with. This kind of leader seems amiable, but in fact his stomach is full of small abacus. You can only be careful step by step in front of him, because he will always inadvertently set a trap for you, which looks more like a doughnut. When you open your mouth to eat, you will find that your teeth are broken and you have to pay for a doughnut.
The last thing I want to do is to enrich myself with cliches. The author believes that what a person learns in school only provides a foundation for you to go to society in the future, and what really makes you stand in society is what you learn in society. These things don't simply include your professional knowledge and skills on how to grow in the workplace. Many of these details are hidden in your daily work, and you need to dig and accumulate experience from them in order to make progress in the future.