In high school, I remember the scenes on TV. These two lovers are alive and well. For various wonderful reasons, they finally parted ways. The hero or heroine must have left each other, although they still love each other so much in their hearts. He (she) knows that they can't be together. Only when they leave can the other party live the life they want, step into the hall of happiness and realize that they can't give each other happiness.
Outside the TV, I was as anxious as a cat on hot bricks. He loves you. She doesn't really want to leave you. You are stupid. But the other half of the story doesn't know, thinking that the other side has moved on and no longer loves himself, so a person cries behind, hysterical and heartbroken, and a person walks in front, secretly crying and sad.
It's really cruel I don't feel very good at the thought of those bridges. So since then, I have been curious, why do two people have to be separated, why can't they give happiness to others, and why should the happiness they give each other be what the other person wants?
Many problems are like a tangled thread in my mind, which can't be smooth. Just like watching too many Korean dramas, I always feel that the hero and heroine can't get together in the end. Whether it is a man or a woman, one person will die eventually, and the cause of death is not a car accident or cancer.
Yes, two kinds of happiness should always haunt us. Either two people can be together, sweet and loving, or the person they love can find their own happiness and bless them deeply in their hearts.
But on the other hand, I think the second kind of happiness is actually more unsatisfactory. Happiness that you can't give is separate, and whether others can find happiness is beyond your control. It's just a matter of whether to be friends after breaking up. The loved one can find his own happiness, and this happiness is only known by the loved one.
Therefore, when it comes to love and happiness in the world, there is actually only one kind. Two people who love each other can be together and go on. Stay together for life.
This kind of happiness is a kind of progress, just like our blessing to our best friend when she got married: you should be happy forever. Only two people remain happy all the time, and this kind of happiness is complete and worthy of praise. Otherwise, it's just the past tense, the love and hate in memory.
However, it is not easy for two people who love each other to keep going. The feelings in love are sincere, warm and surging, but they will not attract so many people's attention and care, unless you are a public figure and enter the gossip entertainment website.
Love is probably the most cunning existence in the world. Two lovers in love just want to see you again at first, so they want to see you many times every day, so they just want to see you many times by themselves, so they have possession, quarrel, kidnapping and hysteria, and there are surprises every day, every day is the same and every day is different.
When we walk in the street, we see lovers kissing passionately, and young lovers whispering in our arms, warm. We all laughed. Single people think this dog food is too bad and the reality is too cruel. People who are also in love just think that love is the same and there is nothing new. Those who have been in love just look back on their past and think about the past.
But every time we see the old couple with silver hair and white temples who help each other, we are moved in the depths of our souls. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. That kind of envy and emotion brings too much expectation and direction to people in love and too much sadness and jealousy to those who are frustrated in love.
Because everyone who has loved knows that love between two people is only the beginning, and it is not easy to support it until the end.
Some people say that when you have a serious relationship and finally break up, it will be difficult for you to like others in the future, and you don't want to spend time or get to know each other. It's like you're almost finished writing an article, but the teacher says your handwriting tore up your homework and asked you to write it again. Although you remember the beginning and content, you are too lazy to write, because an article has spent all your energy and only needs an ending, but you have to start from the beginning.
However, the two men went through all kinds of obstacles and hardships, and finally came to the end. Isn't this the ultimate destination that every couple finally expects to go to?
Sometimes when I go out with Carol and see a pair of loving old people on the road, Carol will secretly show me excitedly and tell me how happy they are. I see how gentle the envious eyes in her eyes are at the moment, and I know how much she wants us to keep going, just like them.
So, more often, when we are chatting, when we are busy, we will secretly take pictures of similar scenes and characters and send them to each other. You see, the old couple are sunbathing together, and we can travel around the world together when we are old. If I have Alzheimer's disease, will you dislike me? What if you forget who you are?
These are the jokes and topics that we often open when chatting. Finally, we also understand that the person who suits you best doesn't need to run after you or get close to you desperately. Instead, two people help each other, snuggle up to each other, go through customs and play BOSS, and make copies together. In the game of life, they found simple and pure fun, bitter and happy.
Couples in their prime of life certainly make people feel the rhythm of youth, strong arms and chest, surprises and expectations, and think that love is like a symphony of ups and downs, which is either exciting, infatuated or disheartened.
In the end, what we envy is the ability and state of continuing to maintain a kind of love when we are old, which is more gentle and tolerant than tenderness and fortitude when we were young. Love can take its time, as long as it is sincere. Even if we occasionally see a scene on the street corner, we will feel the true meaning of Do not forget your initiative mind, so as to achieve your ultimate goal.
This kind of happiness has nothing to do with region, time and money. The more simple and poor you are, the more you will be envied by everyone in love. Beyond all worldly fame and fortune, look down on all human feelings. You are here, and I happen to be with you. Two people live together, and they will stay together until they are old. It is so simple, but it is so extraordinary.
When the passionate love, ups and downs to calm down, when we gradually like the present life, there are no surprises and accidents, we just miss the memory of youth, but the real happiness is firmly in our hands.
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