-"Starting from scratch"
Author Tao Yong is the director of ophthalmology department of Chaoyang Hospital affiliated to Capital Medical University. From June, 5438 to October, 20201October, 20, the doctor was injured by ophthalmic violence in Chaoyang Hospital. Tao Yong's left hand fracture, neuromuscular vascular rupture, craniocerebral trauma, occipital fracture. It took two weeks to get out of danger? . On May 13, Tao Yong resumed his home visit. In August, he won the 12th China Doctor Award. In 65438+February of the same year, his published work "Eye" was selected as "Top Ten Best Books in Du Nan in 2020".
The online evaluation of Eye is: a doctor's meditation, a book's life solution. Homemade can be regarded as an advanced version of Eye, more like a reference book. From the perspective of doctors and patients, Tao Yong deeply analyzed all kinds of stories that happened in the hospital, from which he got his life feelings about ideals, career, family, friendship and love, so as to provide readers with an experience for reference.
According to the author's own life experience, people are divided into two categories: one is the kind of person with a particularly keen nature, and "five words floating in the sky are nothing" refers to this kind of person. This kind of people are generally characterized by believing in Buddhism, pretending nothing in their hearts, preferring to listen, sleeping with a pillow in their hands, being unhurried and tepid, and even the closest people around them rarely see them lose their temper. But most of us belong to the second category. When we encounter something, we are prone to mood swings, hurtful words and outrageous things. Calm down afterwards, and you will often regret it. But we were so angry that we couldn't control ourselves.
Let's focus on the second kind of people. Another biggest feature of this kind of people is that they just get up in the morning, are in a good mood, greet everyone with a smile and nod, and are particularly enthusiastic about their work. However, at a stage of exhaustion, at noon or at night, they will feel that their bodies are hollowed out, and no one wants to take care of them, and no one wants to do anything. At this time, whoever makes them unlucky is just like hitting a gun.
In fact, people have emotions. No mood, just a machine, it's normal to lose your temper. But to learn to control your temper, your body and mind are integrated, physical fatigue will be reflected in psychological resistance, and psychological unwillingness will also cause physical dysfunction.
Therefore, when there are emotional abnormalities and sensory abnormalities, don't deny them easily and take chances. Try to think of your body as another person, try to talk to him, pay attention to his feelings, start with solving physical fatigue, adjust emotional abnormalities, or sleep deeply, or shout in an empty corner, or find someone to talk to.
As long as it is not troubled by the need to maintain basic physiological activities such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, spiritual needs will always be as hungry as children. It can be understood that spiritual needs are infinitely greedy and unsatisfied. If we can't balance our mentality and blindly compare with others, we are particularly easy to hesitate.
People should be open-minded and optimistic. A mountain is higher, people are outside, and the sky is behind. Even the favored ones have unattainable objects and unspeakable difficulties in life, so it is more important for people to be confused and know how to be satisfied. You don't need to envy other people's lives. Maybe the people you envy are also envious of your life. Everyone is an independent existence, and everyone's life is a unique experience.
Of course, people should be content, but if they are not satisfied with their work, they should always keep an optimistic attitude. When dealing with your own professional or technical affairs, you should know how to get to the bottom of it and persevere. If you want to handle things related to people well, you must first learn to reason with others, and don't be too entangled and confused. If you really don't understand what is meaningless, then give up, let others go, or even let yourself go.
Being a man, living too clearly will make you tired, and living tastefully will make you comfortable.