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On the one hand, 18 lacks maternal love, and on the other hand, it is a domestic violence marriage. What should she do?
48-year-old Dzhanis and Liu Yong got married 18, but they divorced three times and remarried three times. On and off, Liu Yong also changed from a poor boy to a successful boss. Not long ago, a war at home broke out again because Janice sold her family car and wanted to give her ex-husband's son a down payment of130,000 yuan to buy a house. On the one hand, it maintained a domestic violence marriage of 18 years, on the other hand, it lost its maternal love of 18 years. How should this cowardly and forbearing Janice choose?

Dzhanis met poor Liu Yong. Although Janice told Liu Yong from the beginning that he was married and had a 6-year-old son, Liang Bin, Liu Yong said that he didn't mind and chose to marry Janice.

After the marriage, 6-year-old Liang Bin was sentenced to be raised by janice, but janice's ability was limited and he was busy making a living. Considering that Liu Yong is married for the first time, Dzhanis has never seen his son once in these years, and he has never paid a penny for child support. Liang Bin has been living with her ex-husband, but Dzhanis hides all her thoughts about her son in the drawer under the bed. In the innermost drawer, there is a photo of Dzhanis and her son.

Only after Janice and Liu Yong got married did they know that Liu Yong would have a domestic violence. He often beat up janice with heavy hands. Therefore, Dzhanis and Liu Yong divorced three times, but after each divorce, Liu Yong took the initiative to get back together with Dzhanis. Because she remarried, because she was worried that her youngest son and Liu Yongsheng would be as motherly as her eldest son Liang Bin after divorce, the kind Janice chose to compromise again and again and promised Liu Yong to remarry.

In recent years, because Liu Yong used the levy to do business, life became better and better, but Dzhanis still dared not contact his eldest son in elementary school, junior high school, high school and university. Janice never paid a penny. Two years ago, his eldest son took the initiative to contact Dzhanis, which made Dzhanis feel particularly sorry for his son because his maternal love was absent 18 years.

Because the eldest son Liang Bin wants to buy a new house in Zhuzhou, let his mother Janice come and have an idea. At the thought of his son being so sensible and now wanting to buy a house, Dzhanis thinks it's time to compensate him. In any case, she took out some money to pay the down payment for her son and buy a house.

Unexpectedly, Dzhanis just looked after the house for his eldest son, but he didn't mention anything about money when he got home. She was beaten by her husband Liu Yong again. Dzhanis, who couldn't stand another domestic violence, had to find a caring group to help her divorce. She really doesn't want such a man.

Once again, domestic violence made Janice think that he had been beaten 18 years and neglected by her husband 18 years. She wants to be a participant rather than a bystander, so she must be a real hostess this time, so she sold her family car and wanted to help her son pay the down payment with130 thousand yuan from the car sale, which is a compensation for her indifference to her eldest son for so many years.

Unexpectedly, Liu Yong smashed the house before the reporters from the love-seeking group came to their home. When they returned to a messy home, Janice was more cautious for fear of being beaten again in Liu Yong.

Unexpectedly, in front of reporters, Liu Yong began to settle accounts with reporters, and worked out how much he had paid for Janice, how much money he had given her, how much gold and silver jewelry he had bought her, how many clothes he had bought her, and so on.

He also told reporters that before 20 17, he had been living in Dzhanis's ex-husband's house because he had no money to buy a house. He felt dependent on others, so he was particularly wronged. Dzhanis also drove him and his mother away again and again, which was the most unacceptable place in Liu Yong.

Dzhanis told reporters that she didn't mean to drive her mother-in-law away. The reason why my mother-in-law moved out of her ex-husband's house and rented a house by herself is because she is crazy, so she can't live with her mother-in-law. Who dares to live with a madman? Moreover, there are so many levies at home that she has never even seen the money.

Listening to Liu Yong's explanation, even reporters can't stand it. The reporter told Liu Yong that the life between husband and wife is for living, not for calculating, and the wife is for loving, not for playing.

At the end of the program, Liu Yong still cares about his house and his money. janice, who has endured 18 years, finally said: This time, she will leave Liu Yong anyway, because this life really can't go on, because she doesn't know how long Liu Yong will beat her again.

It is said that what couples need most is respect, mutual understanding and love for each other. In Liu Yong's eyes, there is only money, and he will only calculate how much he has paid, but he has not seen his wife's forbearance and contribution for him in the past 20 years. In order to take care of his feelings, 18 didn't even dare to look at the 6-year-old child. What kind of cruelty and pain is this?

It is said that a child is a mother's heart. Who would have the heart to ignore their own flesh and blood if they were not forced to 18 years? Moreover, in order to prevent the younger son from repeating the mistake of the older son without maternal love, Janice endured the ruthless fist left by Liu Yong again and again, and this endurance was 18.

In this case, we can see the helplessness of maternal love, and we can also see the greatness of maternal love, because a mother can be willing to be abused by her husband in order to keep her youngest son from losing maternal love 18 years. Although divorced three times, she returned to her youngest son for the fourth time, just trying to hold up a motherly sky for her youngest son.

I hope that after this program, Janice can leave this tyrant-like husband smoothly, and be truly proud to be a person, a woman and herself, instead of living with humiliation, let alone being beaten as a punching bag.