I always see such questions, and I feel that the questioner is very tall. I am like an eighteen-line soil hammer. However, I think my point of view can represent some soil hammers. Self-orientation is very important. My self-orientation is very clear and worth learning.
I think growth is only driven by time. In order to adapt to the society and change itself again and again in order to survive, just like a mollusk falling into a deformed container, it has to change itself along the shape of this container to stay in this container and not fall into the terrible abyss below.
I think growth means that you go through one blow to the next step, and then another blow to the next step, so you are frustrated, embarrassed, attacked and tortured. Of course, the most important thing is love, which pushes you to grow step by step and eventually becomes mature. If you think you are not mature enough, I can only say that you have not been hit hard enough. Don't lose heart, you will grow up.
I think, with the growth of age, with the increase of knowledge and experience, I began to understand right and wrong, understand the truth, understand that my lover also knows how to love himself, know how to be lenient with others, know how to be strict with others, and finally become a mature person, a self-reliant person, and an important part of the whole society that can live a good life and help relatives and friends. In order to build a harmonious society, we need you, and I grow up with all of us.
Sorry, it's a little high. I'm going down.
In short, most of our growth should have nothing to do with the initiative of self-transformation, and most of them are passive growth, so most of them are ordinary people. People who actively grow up seem to be born with such lifelong talent. When they were young, they were quiet and loved reading, but when they grew up, they showed extraordinary emotional intelligence and IQ. When we were still in Seeds of Love, they had already shown their talents in love stories. ...
Forget it, I don't want to talk about it. It's cruel to say that on Christmas Eve.
Finally, I wish you all a safe Christmas Eve.
Kiss and hug