I watched a psychology morning reading class this morning, which talked about how ordinary people get love. . . The main idea of the article is that you should find someone who appreciates yourself. In that person's eyes, you are the "most beautiful", alive, anywhere is good. So if you get along with a person, TA always finds fault with you, consciously arrogant to you, or you feel inferior and fall into self-doubt, please stop, don't set yourself on fire, and don't give TA face. A hammer with three legs is hard to find, but there are plenty of people with two legs. . . If one fails, the next one. In short, you should submit more resumes and interview more, which is similar to looking for a job. If everyone can know your goodness, how unique you are, hahaha.

But ordinary looks or talents generally exist objectively, which requires us to find our own unique attraction and give play to our unique advantages. However, everyone is unique. As long as you take action, you are attractive and spread out, instead of sitting in a stagnant pool. . .

The reason why I feel uncomfortable living may be that I am too embarrassed. Every movement is afraid that others will take me as the protagonist. In fact, there are not so many viewers, and the spectators don't have so much brain capacity. Remember me. . .

So, I have to go on stage twice. I never thought I had the courage to stand in the center of the stage and show myself, because I have always been bound in the role of ugly duckling and dare not let go of exaggerated deformation to make myself a clown in front of the public. But in fact, it's nothing. From school to the first work unit, we once thought that it was our whole world, but now it just disappeared like a cloud. . . I once dared to say absolutely at an early age, just like seeing my 7-year-old nephew say never again, never again. . . Cute and ridiculous. . .

Now that I think about it, my favorite food has been changed several times, and the person I love has been reincarnated. How can I get stuck in a fixed role and indulge in self-satisfaction? Life has passed, it's time to change your life, that is, you want to be free, not so many viewers, just be happy, after all, just live this once. . .

Also, I want to cherish every opportunity at the same time. After all, there are not many opportunities, but there is no pressure. There is pressure. Think I can fire the audience and judges at any time in my life. Ha ha ha ha. For example, I now see those leaders in my former unit who were scared and attacked me at the beginning. What does it have to do with me? In a bad mood, I'm really too lazy to say hello. . . But if you can, it's good to show enough effort to win people. On the one hand, show yourself, exercise yourself and challenge yourself. On the other hand, I hope to meet Bole. After all, there are always swift horses, but Bole doesn't. I'm just a horse. . .

I continued to recite my Jinggangshan, telling the background first and then reciting poems, and also making slides to find music, but in the end I was busy with my part-time job and had to work on my thesis.

There is also the problem of changing cities. Is the bottom of a big city or the middle of a small city good for children's future? Among the children in big cities, is it more important or less important to let them get caught in the middle? I really want to ask Yang Qixin or Professor Chu, but I know they will definitely say wait until you get the OFFER from the big city. Now I can only be in a small city, so why bother about these things? . . Ok, work hard, come on, whether you go or not, the process of passing the exam is a kind of mental training, but you still have to distinguish the importance.