Holding her cold daughter, Mr. Su's mother Liu Yu completely collapsed.
How much effort this mother has put into sending a "stupid" daughter to a well-known university in China and then letting her enter a well-known law firm in Dalian!
My daughter graduated only one year ago, and I can repay my mother's kindness in this way!
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Good couples make their daughters smart at all costs.
Liu Yu, 50, is one of the few full-time undergraduate graduates of her peers. After graduation, he stayed in school to teach. Because of his outstanding teaching achievements, he was promoted all the way and was promoted to professor at the age of 35.
She used to be the deputy director of the Department of Business Administration of a university in Dalian, and was the youngest professor and middle-level cadre at that time. My lover Liang Jun is a civil servant, and now she is in a high position.
The couple's career achievements make many people envy and even envy.
1984, Liu Yusheng gave birth to a daughter named Liang Susu. She told her husband that our children must be better than others.
However, Liu Yu was surprised by her daughter's performance: 1 year and 7 months. When other people's children already want to run, mr.zhou still can't stand still.
Besides walking, mr.zhou's speaking ability is also retarded. Other children can already be called "aunt and mother-in-law", but mr.zhou can't even say "father and mother". Her daughter's performance made Liu Yu very angry.
What really disappointed Liu Yu was when Susie was in primary school. In every exam, Mr. Zhou always fails to get marks on those questions that need brains.
In order to make her daughter smart, Liu Yu became a loyal fan of various brain-strengthening health products, forcing Mr. Zhou to take various supplements every day.
However, the academic performance did not go up, but the child became precocious, and menarche occurred in the fourth grade of primary school. Finally, under the strong advice of doctors and friends, Liu Yucai stopped her daughter's "brain-strengthening plan".
But she did not stop building her daughter's "boutique project" because of this. She arranged her daughter's spare time to be full, and invited tutors from various subjects to give her one-on-one tutoring.
The results of having a mentor are remarkable. In the first semester of grade five in primary school, Mr. Zhou won the first place in the class for the first time.
Mr. Zhou was chosen as the "dark horse" in the class by the teacher and took part in the intelligence contest in the whole district. In the competition, Susu didn't press the answering machine once, because she didn't understand the question and other students already knew the answer.
In a diary written later, Mr. Zhou recalled this incident with great emotion: I was slow to respond, and team activities always dragged my feet.
However, my mother doesn't want to admit it. She always thought that she and her father were elites. According to genetic inheritance, how can I not be smart? Therefore, parents' ability is not necessarily a good thing. I am unhappy, and they are also living a hard life.
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The bully is hard on the bow, and the nerd goes to a prestigious school.
1997 Summer, Susu finally entered junior high school. Liu Yu used all his savings to hire one of the best teachers in Dalian for Susie.
Finally, Mr.zhou was trained to know how to solve the problem as soon as he saw the first half of the problem.
Therefore, in every exam, Mr. Zhou can get the top five results in his class.
Liu Yu is always satisfied. At the moment she got her daughter's report card, she said to Susie, "Your cleverness has really been dug up by your mother."
In 2000, Mr. Zhou was admitted to Dalian No.24 Middle School. In the first monthly exam in high school, mr.zhou failed the exam. To this end, the class teacher and Liu Yu had a serious conversation.
When the teacher casually said that someone suspected that Susie knew the exam questions before she was admitted to No.24 Middle School, Liu Yu went into a rage: "I can sue you for slander according to this sentence!" " "
After that, she dragged the teacher to the principal's office. Finally, Mr. Su's class teacher apologized to Liu Yu.
Liu Yu took the opportunity to ask the headmaster, "such a biased class teacher is not suitable to be my daughter's teacher." I don't need to report this to the Education Committee, provided that Mr. Zhou is transferred to Class 6, Grade 1. "
Class One (Six) of Senior High School is a top class. In this way, Miss Zhou, who can't keep up with the progress, was transferred to the top class. Less than a week later, Mr. Zhou, who has always been obedient to his mother, told her: "I want to drop out of school."
Hearing this, Liu Yu's eyes are about to pop out.
Mr.zhou is quite firm: "I don't understand what the teacher said at all. High school courses are really too difficult for me. I want to study nursing in a vocational school and come to work in a nursing home. "
Susu's words almost choked Liu Yu to death.
Liang Jun tried to persuade Liu Yu to respect her children's choices, but Liu Yu's reaction was quite strong: "A child who is 10,000 times worse than our vegetarian diet can go to college. Why can't she?" ? I tell you, Liang Jun, unless I die tomorrow, I must go to college as a vegetarian, and it is a famous school! "
Many things happen. In 2003, Mr Zhou was admitted to the School of Civil and Commercial Economics of China University of Political Science and Law. On the day of receiving the admission notice, Liu Yu cried. Liang Jun is even more grateful to Liu Yu: "If it weren't for you, my daughter would be ruined."
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Pull out the seedlings and encourage them, and they are doomed to perish.
University life has opened another window for susu. She hopes to enjoy college life without her mother's arrangement. However, the reality soon extinguished mr.zhou's hope. At the end of the first semester, Mr. Zhou was the only one in the class who failed in advanced mathematics.
As a result, Mr. Su's college life is still like high school, except for studying.
In her diary, she used "pity" to describe herself and her mother: the clever mother gave birth to an unintelligent child, and refused to accept the reality, which was pitiful. An unintelligent child has a clever mother. Poor thing.
When I was in the third year of high school, Susie drank a lot of wine. When it was her turn to make a graduation speech, her speech made many students red-eyed.
"After graduation, the happiest thing for everyone is that they can finally go to the society and be self-reliant. I am most happy that I can finally stop studying. This 16 study career is so tired that I don't want to live many times ... "
Through various connections, Liu Yu got Su Su into a law firm specializing in maritime litigation in Dalian. Mr. Zhou's master is a very famous lawyer in the industry and is very strict with his subordinates.
On the first day of work, Master gave Susie a task, that is, to send an email to a client in Canada to inform him of the progress of the lawsuit and ask him to provide a new document.
For others, this task may be a piece of cake, but for mr.zhou, it is really difficult. Because her foreign language level is average and she is not majoring in maritime law in college, she is not very clear about many terms in the email.
Seeing that Master was busy, Susie asked other colleagues for help, but the reply was: "I am busy, you should know to do your own thing."
When Master came back in the evening, Susie had to tell the truth. At that time, Master was a little angry: "You can't do it, why don't you ask someone else for help?" Do you know how much commission you will lose if you delay one day? "
When Mr.zhou told Master that his colleague refused to help, Master became even angrier: "If you don't pay attention to communication at ordinary times, how can others help you? Do you want me to teach you how to ask for help? "
Mr.zhou's tears can't stop anymore. She could feel many colleagues looking at the outside room, and an idea appeared in Mr. Zhou's mind: no one in the unit would look up to her anymore.
Back home, mr.zhou said to his mother, "Mom, I don't want to work in this unit. I am not qualified at all. " Liu Yu was very angry: "You are a graduate of China University of Political Science and Law, and you have only worked for one day. Aren't you ashamed to say such a thing? "
As in the past, Mr. Zhou had 10,000 unwillingness and had to obey his mother's arrangement.
On June 25th, 2007, 65438+February 25th, 2007, the office held a Christmas party. Many people regard it as an opportunity to show their talents and strengthen their contacts, and all of them have shown various housekeeping skills.
However, when the host arrived in front of mr.zhou, she stood awkwardly on the stage, really unable to figure out what she wanted to show. Finally, she recited a Tang poem for everyone and solved the problem.
Mr.zhou obviously felt that from that day on, she completely became a dispensable person in the company. What's the point of "dispensable" living? She thought of quitting her job again and wanted to be a teacher in a rural primary school.
But my mother changed her mind again: "Only by staying in a good unit can we find a better object." Don't worry, as long as you don't resign, this company will never throw you out of the house because of your father's feelings. "
Finally, one afternoon, Mr. Zhou flew down from the floor of Unit 2 1 and died on the spot.
A few days later, Liu Yucai found an email from Susu before she committed suicide in her mailbox. The content is very short: Mom and Dad, I have always wanted to be the kind of person you want me to be, but I have never been that kind of person.
I'm very tired. I've been living in a circle that doesn't belong to me. The Excellence of others is used to highlight my stupidity. I'm so tired that I want to have a rest. Maybe I can find my own kind in heaven. I'm not smart, but I live happily.
These words made Liu Yu unable to calm down for a long time.
My mother said with tears, "I just want to exchange my daughter's life for the vigilance of other parents."
There is a proverb in Turkey: God has prepared a short branch for every stupid bird. This is a sentence from mr.zhou's diary.
However, I just let her reach the high branch that doesn't belong to her at all. As a result, she finally fell from a height that did not belong to her.
In retrospect, didn't I just want to make her happy? By this standard, it doesn't matter what grades you get in the exam or what famous school you go to. What's wrong with eating chaff, as long as she likes it?