When I first entered school, there was a roommate in our dormitory. When we first came, each of us took the initiative to add WeChat friends and then contacted each other, but he didn't take the initiative to add us. We used to add her. At first, we just thought she was just introverted. The next day, our military training began. On the first day, we all went to military training in high spirits. At noon, we were so tired that we didn't have the heart to eat any more. Then we basically go back to the dormitory to sleep for a while, because our legs will be broken because we are too tired. Then the girl told another person in our dormitory to ask her to take time off and do laundry in the dormitory in the afternoon. This is only the first day. Later, on the third or fourth day, her mother came to see her and brought him a lot of food, food and so on, which we all envied. During the military training, we should check the dormitory every day, but we should also clean it during the day, and it is not allowed to be messy. But we always check the dormitory for a long time because of this girl's various conditions.
After the military training, we began to have normal classes. Because our school is far away, it's basically far away. We don't usually go out to play, but her mother will pick her up every week, take her home, and then bring her back to class on Monday. She will tidy up this week's clothes, take them home, and then come back and wear new ones, just this week. What impressed me most was that she made her own hot pot and sent a video to her mother asking how to do it. Our class basically has to hand in homework, and then she didn't hand in any, and then finally her mother communicated with the monitor of our class, and then asked what homework she had, which was equivalent to her knowing nothing.
In the end, she dropped out of school after only one semester. Therefore, as a college student, self-care ability is still super important.