I have to take him with me when I go to make up lessons for the children this Saturday. Being bored at a friend's house sometimes affects the study of younger brothers and sisters. My friend is fierce. If he is afraid, he will do well. My friend also talks to his son.
After lunch, she told me about her son. I told my son that my mother worked hard and wanted to listen to her. As a result, the son replied, "My mother doesn't work hard, she doesn't support me, and her grandmother supports me." My friend was very angry. He felt that he didn't respect me, didn't appreciate me, and said some of his words.
She advised me not to be too gentle with my son, because loving mothers often fail. The fierce, the fight or fierce, to fight, to be strict, to establish prestige in front of him, don't always feel indebted to the children.
I forget which book I read this sentence: Don't feel indebted to your children. I seem to understand, but I still feel indebted to him.
I have always adopted a policy of appeasement towards his education. Yes, but I really don't advocate this way. It has something to do with my personality.
After reading a lot of parenting books and studying, I really found acting more difficult.
Children are like the Monkey King's face-they change as they say. You must have 18 kinds of martial arts-master everything before you can deal with it. Otherwise, you will be miserable and exhausted.
Today, he quarreled with me twice and then ran away. Once at home, I was unhappy because I didn't like him, so I opened the door and ran out. I ignored him at first. I waited for more than ten minutes and didn't come back. Go out and look, there is no figure on the balcony, and I don't know where I went. After a while, there was a knock at the door. He told me to run to the first floor stairs and sit and cry. I am angry and dissatisfied with his behavior. Tell him the seriousness of the matter and punish him for standing. As a result, he stood and cried.
Look at him crying like a flower cat, distressed and unbearable. Bite your teeth and don't compromise.
Remind him afterwards. I ended up at my sister's house in the afternoon. It is not convenient for me to make a warm palace. I asked him out. When he got angry, he ran away and disappeared. The two adults kept looking back and forth. I can't tell my feelings, lying in bed, angry, angry, worried, helpless … several feelings are mixed together.
I looked inside and out several times. As soon as he came out, an aunt told him to stand still, saying that he couldn't do this and let him stand as a punishment. He looks unhappy. What can you do with me? I really want to get together with him one last time.
After a while, I called him in and he choked up. I said a few words to him. He started pulling the sheets on me when he was unhappy. I got angry and hit him. He was in tears and cried so sadly. Stand in front of me and hold my hand. I am ambivalent in my heart, so let him come forward first.
Then someone came, and I told him to wait outside, but he turned around step by step. Sitting in the chair outside, I looked like a kannika nimtragol and said, "Mom, give me a hug." Seeing his frown and injustice, I asked him to wait for me with his mobile phone and listen to the story.
When I came out, he was lying on the floor alone listening to a story. I called him and took him home.
On the way, I held his hand tightly and said to him, "I will be angry because you have gone too far." What if the bad guys catch you running around? Is it too late to regret? " He nodded obediently.
On the way, after buying steamed bread, he finally smiled and ate steamed bread happily.
Remind me to read after supper when I get home. I read "Straw House" carefully with me, thinking of Yau Ma Tei, Straw House and Cao Wenxuan, and soon fell asleep.
In his education, sometimes he is really confused. Sometimes I want him to correct his shortcomings and form good habits, but he always gets twice the result with half the effort and can't achieve the effect.
It is said that children are replicas of their parents, mirrors of their parents, and parents are their first teachers. You can always see your own shadow in him.
Perhaps, it is not the children who should change, but themselves. If you change yourself, your children will change with you.
I need to work harder on the long road in the future! Study hard to be a qualified mother.