Personally, I think there are two kinds of people who are very tired.

1. My cousin came to the university all the way and felt that she had finally realized her ideal and could be presumptuous. Yes, getting into a good university is his ideal. Nine years of study is for this goal. Three years in high school is more like a bird in a cage. Finally, his ideal came true. He came out of the cage and suddenly didn't know what to do next.

After life had no purpose, he began to think about the meaning of life. I thought for a long time, but there was no answer. Finally, he came to the conclusion: Fuck you, it's all bullshit. Eating, drinking and enjoying the present is the correct solution. I finally came to heaven, but I can't waste these four years.

So he spent these four years eating, drinking and having fun, loafing around all day, doing nothing, attending parties everywhere, and trying to make up for the love that he had never talked about in junior high school and high school. I never want to do anything meaningful, and I never want to plan my future with my brain. The only thing I want is how to get a beautiful girl. The only thing I want to do is fuck the beautiful girl I got. I don't exercise at ordinary times, and I accidentally flashed my waist.

You said he had a good time. How can he be tired? However, he is very afraid of loneliness. Whenever he is alone in the dead of night, the unspeakable loneliness spreads like the tide. He is afraid of being alone and always wants to blend in with the crowd. Yes, he is running away. He knows he is mediocre, but he doesn't know how to plan his future. Although he was admitted to the university, he didn't like his major. He thought that as long as he was admitted to college, his life would be complete, but he didn't know that the road of life had just begun. I will graduate soon, so where should I go?

He is afraid of the future, and he is afraid that the future will fail. So I put the future behind me, thinking that I wouldn't be afraid if I didn't think about it. Just as he likes beautiful girls. He is more than 300 degrees nearsighted, but he doesn't want to wear glasses. You asked him why, but he said he didn't want to see ugly women, and he lied to himself that it would make him feel hazy and beautiful. This made him unable to see the faces of people in the distance. The advantage is that she doesn't have to be afraid to see what she shouldn't see. The disadvantage is that she sometimes mistakenly thinks that what she shouldn't see is beautiful, and when she looks closely, she is scared again. But also missed a lot of beautiful things. When you see him, you can't help cursing him, loser!

There is another kind of person, just like my other cousin (my grandmother gave birth to nine children and I have seven uncles). He hates that cousin up there, his cousin. His parents instilled the idea of success in him from an early age. Son, you must live up to expectations. You want to take the Tsinghua exam, and you want to take the Peking University exam. You will succeed in your career, so he studies hard to realize his parents' expectations. Finally, I was admitted to Xiamen University. When he arrived at the university, he also had a period of confusion, but he quickly adjusted. Because he doesn't want to be a mediocre person like his cousin. He knows that if he can't find a good job, if he can't make a name for himself, he will be a loser and will be laughed at. His father is a mediocre man, who has received countless supercilious looks all his life.

He tried his best to keep himself busy. Everyone else is playing mobile phones in class. He is studying hard. Others are farting and chatting at night, or he has fallen asleep. He is still reciting words. He joined various societies. He is the vice president of the student union. He got several certificates and even applied to join the party. When you see him, you can't help saying, what an ambitious young man. You said his life was full. How can he be tired? At best, he's just tired. This reminds me of the previous news. In order to find a good job, a guy took 65 certificates in four years of college. Now look at his face. It seems that he is smiling, but is he really happy?

What I see is a confused face. Each of these 65 certificates represents a kind of fear. He is also afraid of the future and becoming a loser, so he uses 65 certificates to prove himself. If each of these 65 certificates can lead to a career, which one do you think he will choose? I don't think he even knows. And in fact, the 65 certificates he tried his best to take are all bullshit certificates, which are worthless at all. This is simply another version of mediocrity.

You are afraid of failure, so you are desperate for success. You think you are superior to people who play games and fall in love all day. You think that as long as you work hard, keep yourself busy and find a job, even if it is not what I like, as long as you are not defined as a loser, your efforts are meaningful. It's ridiculous not to regret wasting time or suffering from mediocrity. You are more pitiful than those idle people. Now you know why he feels tired. Although their lifestyles in college are different, their hearts are the same, that is, neither of them is! Know! Tao! Since! He himself! Want to! Yes! What! Yao!

In fact, not only the two of them, but many of us have only one goal before going to college, that is, going to college. I have to say that our exam-oriented education has a fatal flaw. It's like an assembly line in a factory. We made learning machines in batches and sent them to universities, and the task was completed. Many of us have been educated. You have to work hard and get into a good university, and then you will have a successful career, but it has never asked you what you want to do. What kind of person do you want to be? What do you like? What are your talents and abilities?

Some people are right, finding the right direction is the most important thing, but I only knew before that I couldn't lose at the starting line, but I didn't think about running in the right direction after starting. I want to show this answer to people who are still in high school, because people who have gone to college may not have been admitted to the ideal university, and they don't like their chosen major, so they are already very confused. After graduation, I may find a job casually and lead a busy life, which may make me more tired. You should find the right direction before you go to college, so that your efforts will be more motivated after you go to college. As the protagonist in Three Silence said: I chose engineering because I love engineering, and he is my wife. And you, a born photographer, come to study engineering.

You think that if you don't work hard, you will be mediocre, but you will find that if you work hard, you will be equally confused, because your efforts are in the wrong direction. How can you not be tired?