I don't think that just because parents send their children to school doesn't mean that their children are not independent. For many families, going to college is the first time for children to live alone in such a far place. Parents are of course worried about strange bus lines and strange cities. They want to accompany their children to school to report and see where their children will live in the next four years. Parents will feel more secure only when they see their children's college campus with their own eyes. Moreover, after going to college, there are only winter and summer in my hometown, and there is no spring and autumn. Most students go home only in winter and summer vacations every year, and spend less time with their parents. Now, of course, we should cherish it. It is also a family trip for parents and children to go to college together. Therefore, parents sending their children to college is just an expression of emotion, which does not mean that children are not independent.
When I found my son's school, there were still two days before the date of registration. The campus is clean and tidy, and the big ones can't find their own feelings. Three people walked silently in the school and found my son's dormitory. Aunt social management enthusiastically gave the dormitory key and pushed open the dormitory door. Where are the six beds and six tables quietly? A big wardrobe gives everyone a private space, the room is spotless, and a ray of sunshine comes in obliquely and fills it. I began to tidy up my bedside table, and my son took out a suitcase full of things one by one. We both looked at our busy son with joy and sadness. My husband suddenly said, why does it feel like we are separated? On the day of official registration, the campus was full of parents and children dragging suitcases. My son has always insisted that we should not interfere. My husband and I followed him empty-handed and suppressed the impulse to do something for him. When my son reported for duty, his son was not around, and all the originally planned tourist routes were ruined. We stubbornly wait in the hotel, thinking that the children haven't started school yet, and there may not be so much to do, but every evening, the children will come out to see us at 8 o'clock.
No matter how big a child is, it is also a treasure in the hearts of parents. Even if the child is independent, it is not independent enough in the hearts of parents. Because most of them are only children, their parents are spoiled at home, and their children are still worried about going to college. They are worried that their children will be tired when they come to school to get their luggage alone, and that their self-care ability is not strong enough after entering school! But going to college is different, not to mention that college is far from home. Once the child goes out, he can't see it for months. After all, I haven't got up early to cook, cleaned my house, washed clothes, bought food and cooked for more than ten years. Suddenly there were no children at home and a set of tableware was missing. There must be a sense of psychological deficiency. When children go to college, parents think about the living environment of this school all day. Is life convenient? Will you get used to eating and living with children? In this way of thinking, parents must send their children to school. Some people say that parents may love their children more than themselves, so going to college is not only a blessing for students themselves, but also a happy thing for the whole family. So as parents, they may be more curious about the university environment than students. This is one of the reasons why they want to go to college more than their children to see the environment and look forward to it. Secondly, it is a sign of loving children. Many parents don't know how to love their children. Therefore, although the students have grown up, they may not love themselves, but they can only express themselves through one thing at a time. Sending children to school is naturally one of the good ways.
"Expecting your child to succeed" is the wish of all parents in the world. Letting children go to college is not only the wish of parents, but also a sign that children leave their parents and become adults alone. Therefore, it is of great significance for parents to send their children to school. First, most children go to unfamiliar cities when they go to college. Children need to carry more things when they start school. Parents don't trust their children to go alone, but they usually accompany them, take their luggage together and clean up their children. Second, many parents have never been to college, and want to touch the light of their children and feel the atmosphere and environment of the university. For parents and family, it is also equivalent to a trip. Third, emotional reluctance. For many parents, going to college is the first time for their children to leave, and there will be a lot of emotional disappointment, so they want to say goodbye.