I think I should leave. I reread the story carefully. There is such a description: "Later, this young man surnamed Wei told me that on the evening of the 2 nd, after his partner surnamed Chen went down the mountain for help, he stayed with her girlfriend, but the mountain was extremely short of oxygen, and he was also worried that something would happen to his partner when he went down the mountain, so he didn't decide to go down the mountain for help until the 3 rd 1: 30." Xu Guihua said. After the boyfriend found the rescuer, he returned to participate in the rescue. ?

I believe this is the truth. Moreover, when his son and his party met Wei, Wei's physical condition was already very poor. He came down from the mountain at midnight 1: 30 and got lost all night. Plus, he didn't eat, and his physical strength was overdrawn, but he resolutely applied to go up the mountain with them to rescue. It is said that Wei, his son and Captain Wang returned to the top of the mountain again, but when he reached an altitude of 4,900 meters, Wei's reaction was so strong that he could not go any further. In order to ensure Wei's safety, his son Xu Xiaoyao and Captain Wang refused him to continue to look up the mountain until the rescue team arrived. Finally, rescuers forced him down the mountain. Xu Guihua also said: He didn't want to leave at that time, saying that his girlfriend was on the mountain, but in that case, he would be in danger if he didn't go down the mountain. It can be seen that her boyfriend Wei didn't think of running for his life alone and abandoning his girlfriend.

Onlookers may think that in the face of difficulties, friends must overcome them together and never give up without experiencing what they experienced at that time. My opinion is different. I think my boyfriend Wei must have made a choice after objectively thinking about the surrounding environment and objectively evaluating the health status of himself and his girlfriend and the current climate conditions. At that time, he was only allowed to send out a distress signal, so that it was possible to save the lives of the two. Otherwise, today's result may not be a loss of life.

The controversial point of this topic is: did he leave alone to protect himself and give up his girlfriend? Imagine, if Mou Wei came out to save his girlfriend in the shortest time, would the result of public opinion be another scene? Therefore, when facing other people's events, onlookers must have a clear and calm mind and an understanding attitude, instead of taking them out of context and showing terrible "justice awe-inspiring." What I saw was that my boyfriend Mou Wei was trying his best to save his girlfriend's life, but his way of saving was not to die tragically together, but to save himself first and send out a distress signal at the same time; The delay of girlfriend's rescue was only related to the weather environment at that time, and no human factors were seen.

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