Generally speaking, it is a watershed for activists to prepare to join the party. As long as it's over, it's almost enough to prepare party member for party member.
In fact, the problem of joining the party is almost the same as long as the relationship between counselors is done well. Now this society is a society of people, so we should grasp interpersonal relationships. Joining the party is just a form. It's no problem to get on well with your superiors. You must take the initiative to talk to the counselor often, pay more attention to your counselor and let him remember you. You must send something to the counselor just in case, otherwise others will give you something, and no matter how good the relationship is. After all, people are suppressed by human feelings.
You said you didn't know the dean. I don't think that's a good reason. If you want to do something, the obstacles in the middle must be removed. You can ask the person in charge of this department through others. First, you should know him first, and say hello when you see him (see 2 or 3 times). After a long time, he will know you. Although he doesn't know you very well, he should get acquainted first, and then you should know what he does. In this way, you can find a reason to talk to him in his office at any time, or ask him for advice (for example, he teaches mathematics, you can ask him for advice with a book), so as to further the relationship, and then find a way to get his QQ or mobile phone number and know what his interests are, so that you can invite him to dinner justifiably or visit him at his home (say hello in advance).
So you don't have a chance? As for how to say it, first of all, you can't directly ask him to help you. You should have a smooth transition period, sincerely praise him, thank him for often answering some questions for you during this period and thank him for taking care of you. The two sides talked for a while (try to say what the other side likes to hear, such as his personal hobbies, etc.). ), let him see that your visit has no purpose, and cut to the chase slowly (not too hard, but smoothly). For example, you can slowly cut into the issue of joining the party. You can ask, what are the conditions for joining the party? What kind of talents can join the party? Do you think I can? Like this question, you can talk about the reason why you want to join the party and ask him for help. That's it!
In short, please remember one sentence: whatever you do, as long as you want to do it! , you can do it! Have confidence in yourself, I support you!