There was a hot search before, which was very interesting, but also very frustrating: the first batch of 90 s will be 30 soon!

I am born after 90, and most of my peers are married and have children. When chatting with peers, I always hear such words: "If I had chosen what kind of road, my life would be better now!" People who say such things often have a look of regret after the tide recedes.

When I comforted, I said, "It doesn't matter, it's not too late!" " The other person sighed, lowered his head and said, "No, I am old now. I have to support my family and pay off my mortgage and car loan. There's nothing to toss about. It's too late! " This is the end of the topic.

02

I remember a story in Animal Management that I will never forget. Those two episodes are about earthworm essence. Earthworm essence was adopted by human adoptive parents and admitted to the Dream Conservatory of Music, but the adoptive parents hoped that she would stay in her hometown and be closer to herself. She came up with a solution in a dilemma.

Xu Zhi, an earthworm, gave his life to cut himself into two pieces, creating a doppelganger, that is, another identical self. She left her doppelganger to accompany her adoptive parents and went to Beijing Conservatory of Music to study.

It suddenly occurred to me that there must be another me in this world, living the life I want! And when I was watching the play, I thought, everyone is greedy. There may be many people who envy earthworm essence and can live two different lives at the same time.

If you could have two lives, what different choices would you make?

Perhaps, like Xu Zhi, I will dream of working hard and traveling the world alone. The other stayed comfortably in his hometown and town, doing the same job, choosing a person to get married and have children and lead an ordinary life.

However, the decision at that time did not necessarily mean that it was right. Xu Zhi willfully thinks that he can switch between two kinds of life at will, and come back to enjoy the comfort when he is tired of drifting in the North. My husband cheated on me. He thought marriage was boring, and he wanted to pursue his dream again. Finally, he was strongly rejected by his music-loving doppelganger.

This story is very true and touching. Where is life expensive? Expensive is expensive On the road of life, there is only one choice.

In fact, people can't have different lives after making different choices at the same time, and they can't escape their choices and difficulties. Therefore, no matter which way you choose in life, you will regret it.

No matter what choice you make, the road ahead will not be smooth sailing, and you will have the impulse to regret.

03

Now that I regret it, why not regain my dream earlier, so as not to leave regrets in my life? Someone is looking for an excuse again: "I am so old ..."

My best friend, Bob, has a friend named Kuai, who is as old as us, but lives an enviable life in Beijing. She has her own nest and a cat. She usually writes plays and reviews, and also makes friends with major directors and little red meat.

Seven years ago, she just graduated from college, gave up the comfortable job arranged by her parents, and came to Beijing alone to study bit by bit with the crew and learn from a screenwriter. The crew has no specific working hours, and often turns around day and night, and there is no meal.

We can't imagine what she has suffered. She deserves the treatment she is enjoying now. My best friend Bob always looks envious when telling stories, and then he really wants to quit his job and live the life he wants, but he dare not. She is afraid that after she quits, her dream will fail, and she can't find a stable job when she is old, leaving only regrets.

Perhaps the most common sentence we hear is "at what age, we should do something." For example, you should get married and have children in your 20 s; In their thirties, they have to support their families; More than 40 years old, half buried, divorced; When you are over 50 years old, you should think more about your children and not just play for yourself. People in their sixties should enjoy their lives and stop tossing about. ...

It seems that everything everyone has to do is limited by age. If you don't follow this process, you will be unsociable or different, and you will be accused. When you reach middle age and want to pursue your dreams again, people around you will also say, "You are so old, don't toss about!" "

Du Yuesheng famously said, "When people say you are crazy, you are not far from success." Paying too much attention to other people's eyes shows that you are not persistent enough and do not love the life you want.

04

We have seen many inspirational movies, ordinary as dust, and finally succeeded in counterattack. We always look at it with blood boiling, and then sigh, if I had done what I did, I would have lived a different life. Now, I have never been that kind of person.

But in fact, all the regrets in life are because when you are faced with a choice, you dare not take that step, dare not work hard, give up easily, and finally let the opportunity slip through your fingers. This matter has nothing to do with time and age.

Bo Huang was admitted to university at the age of 26, Ma Yun founded Alibaba at the age of 35 and Huawei at the age of 43. Some people say that they are all celebrities, so let's talk about people who are not celebrities.

Deshun Wang studied English at the age of 44, pantomime at the age of 49, started fitness at the age of 50, created a "living sculpture" at the age of 57, learned to ride horses at the age of 65, practiced abdominal muscles at the age of 70, rode a motorcycle at the age of 78, and went to the fashion week catwalk at the age of 79, which set off the audience.

China Qipao grandma Han Bin retired at the age of 60 and won the beauty pageant at the age of 68. At the age of 70, he appeared at the international runway New York Fashion Week, which surprised the whole world.

Someone wants to say it again. They are all very popular and can say anything. Let's talk about ordinary people again

Ma Jie, a 56-year-old security guard in Inner Mongolia, taught himself music since childhood and worked as a keyboard player and band in the south for more than 20 years. Now he is working as a security guard in the Children's Palace. He thinks this job is close to art, and then his fingers itch. I played the piano and became popular on the Internet.

Zhou Dexin, a 5 1 year-old security guard at Xiamen University, is regarded as an "uncle who plays truant" by his classmates during the day and a "guardian" on campus at night. He worked in black and white shifts, passed more than 40 exams in five years and obtained a bachelor's degree in law from Xiamen University.

The 75-year-old Shandong grandfather had no foundation, taught himself ballet for two years, and formed a "old boys" group with several partners to participate in variety shows, which was very successful.

05

An English proverb says: The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, and then now.

Growing up is to shake hands with an increasingly dull life. Only by accepting the ordinary can we make up our minds to change our lives through study and struggle. Ordinary does not mean a lifetime of mediocrity. May you have Gankun in your heart and mountains and valleys in your heart. Accept your commonness and strive to be different!

Dream, when to chase, it's never too late. If you want to do something, do it at once! The life you want, you have to fight for it yourself!