Judging from her questions and conversations, a girl of seventeen or eighteen is in a state of extreme lack of gender knowledge, and only Nuo Nuo has put forward this difficult problem. Indeed, not only girls, but also boys of this age are puzzled. He doesn't know what responsibility he should take in the process of sexual life, and he doesn't know how to protect his girlfriend. He will regard the injury as a temporary negligence and the impulse as love. So self-study and self-protection are very important!
What is marginality? It refers to a series of intimate behaviors between the two sexes caused by sexual attraction. In sexual communication, sexual attraction, such as shaking hands, talking, hugging, flirting in love, whispering between husband and wife, can bring romance to both sides, make them reach emotional climax, and eliminate sexual tension to a great extent. These marginal sexual behaviors can induce the secretion of male body fluids, such as prostatic fluid, which contains a small amount of semen. If the female reproductive organs are exposed to these liquids, it may lead to pregnancy. (but it doesn't mean that holding hands will make you pregnant. )
Many girls have misunderstandings. As long as you have had sex, you will get pregnant. In fact, there are many unreliable behaviors or methods that can lead to pregnancy!
For example, we talked about safe period contraception, in vitro, taking T on the way and so on. None of them are reliable. Doing a good job of contraception means: take T before you start!
What are the consequences of reckless love:
1. Unintended pregnancy
If you don't plan to have children, any sexual behavior without contraception may lead to unintended pregnancy. The solution to unplanned pregnancy is mainly induced abortion. Induced abortion can be divided into two methods: surgical abortion and drug abortion. Every abortion will do more harm to women! This is a verdict on life! I don't think anyone wants to see this result.
2. Sexually transmitted diseases
Did you know each other well before sleeping together? Have you had a physical examination? Unclean sex is one of the causes of sexually transmitted diseases. As one of the most commonly used contraceptive methods, the correct use of condoms by men can avoid unintended pregnancy and disease infection!
3. Psychological problems
Premature sex is not only harmful to health, but also harmful to mental health. You can't bear the corresponding responsibilities and are afraid to tell your parents. What you are most afraid of is that the boys are gone, and the girls go to the black clinic to have an abortion, lose their boyfriends and children. ...
For people with poor psychological endurance, the consequences of reckless love are unimaginable. ...
To avoid this kind of thing, I think: parents have great responsibilities since childhood, and family education is very important. Parents' discipline and girls' eyes are also important. From an early age, we should cultivate her ability to distinguish right from wrong and protect herself. We should also let her know what principles she needs to adhere to, so that she can make the right choice in the face of right and wrong even if her parents are not around. She also needs to know this knowledge, know how to protect herself, know the bottom line, principles and so on.