At that time, I wanted to stay in Beijing alone and didn't want to go back to my hometown. Although I have many classmates, they may choose to go back to their hometown to take an examination of a civil servant, have a stable job income and live a life that is not so hard and so hard. If all goes well, the conditions at home are ok and I will work soon. After a year or two, I'm basically ready to find someone to marry. After marriage, there will be children soon, and many things will be settled.
But I don't want to live this life in my bones. I feel so young that I want to experience and experience a lot. I don't want to go back to a small city for life.
I thought about it for several nights and wrote a draft. The general direction is to give my parents a clear description of my thoughts on the future, my specific plans, my views on this industry and what I want to do. Although my parents will worry about me and do me good, in my understanding, my parents and I are independent. They are them, they have their lives, I have my life, I am not their staff, and they are not responsible for me. After all, I have the ability to earn money to support myself when I grow up.
I told my parents separately, because many times you have to tell them together. I don't know. I'm still on the battlefield. Just list a few specific points, which are clear about their own benefits and reassure them that they can take care of themselves. Although you may be a little tired at first, there are many opportunities for the development of big cities after all. In addition, there are some other relatives in the family who have developed in Beijing before and made some achievements. This is also a good example, because you want to tell them about those famous people, and they don't listen.
So, I told them stories about my relatives and uncles. He came to Beijing alone and worked hard from scratch. Now I live and work in Beijing, have several houses and have a very good career.
In addition, just after these paved communication, communicate with your parents regularly, including some progress and achievements in your new job. Of course, there may be some small difficulties in regular communication, so that they can rest assured. Besides, you really need to pay attention to your health, otherwise they will often ask you what you ate. Are you working overtime again? How, how, these can be said as appropriate.