Class gatherings in universities have become utilitarian.
Because I went to college, I had to get in touch with many things besides studying. For example, many people will always please the cadres in the class when attending class parties, or they will give others drinks crazily. It's not enough for others not to drink. Finally, they will have to let their classmates carry her back to school. This is also the reason why some people hate attending class reunion. It's really hard. Although we are classmates, we'd better not go.
If it is a class party, you need to pay.
Because we are all college students going out to eat together, we can't pay for dinner alone. Sometimes a meal will cost a lot of money, even if it is shared equally among everyone. Some students feel that their economic vision is not very good, and they don't want to go to class parties often. Moreover, if there are girls in the class, the class Committee will also advise girls not to pay, but they are not satisfied because they dare not have too many opinions because of face.
There is no need for college students to be too utilitarian.
College students are just students. There is no need to say that they have experienced more things now and have an advantage in society. There is not much difference. This society is much more complicated than you think. Only when you really go out into the society and get in touch with those people can you really understand what society is like. It is not enough to rely on college time alone, but you still need to experience it yourself.
Many university parties are unnecessary, and everyone is not very happy after the party, so some people don't want to go to the class party.