Inferiority I feel that you may be oppressed from two aspects, maybe ugly, maybe poor. If dealing with the opposite sex, that's it. But I don't think ducks need to think about how to plan their future life when they go to college, and see if they need to study hard and take the postgraduate exam or something. Men and women, all kinds of things are too eager to pursue true love, which will only waste money and energy.
I think it is enough to talk to girls normally, or we can be bold and not too restrained, mainly because we will appear timid and socially fearful.