It should be said that this is a typical example of "fighting for rice", which means that when a person is starving, if you give him a liter of rice, he will appreciate you. When you give him a bucket of rice, he will hope to get your free support forever or live better, and hate that you have not satisfied him.
This is a historical allusion, but we can see the ugliness of human nature from it. For example, when a person can't live because of 10 thousand yuan, he will be very grateful if you subsidize or lend him 10 thousand yuan. But when he has experienced immediate life and death, he hopes that you can lend him more money, whether it is business or luxury consumption. In short, he thinks you have money, so you should continue to help him. If you don't continue to help him, he will hate you and curse you for it. I completely forgot that after his death, you helped him get 10 thousand yuan and borrowed money to tide him over.
This college student thinks that ten days 1000 is not too much, especially for Sun Li. From the perspective of Sun Li and charity, helping people with the lowest bottom line with basic living conditions is only a condition to maintain their life and basic humanity. As for how to develop and live a superior life in the future, it depends on everyone's different fate, and everyone's qualifications and efforts. And this is not the ultimate goal of funding and charity.
Therefore, the ugliness of human nature is very obvious in this funded college student. Maybe he got rid of the lowest living conditions, or maybe after he entered university life, he was influenced by his classmates with superior environment and family conditions and began to compare with others. I completely forgot my original predicament and Sun Li's assistance to him for a long time when he needed it most. For Sun Li, the first is a compassionate heart; Second, it is possible to help more than one person. Third, it is to help and help the poor. The purpose is not to let you live a superior life, but to maintain your basic life and basic morality. It is to make up for the deficiency of the social relief system, not an obligation.
Therefore, from this college student, we can see the filth and greed of human nature, and the reality of the modern version of "fighting against rice" between farmers and snakes.
The grace of dripping water will be rewarded by the spring water. That college student was subsidized by others, but he bit others back. Very incomprehensible.
Of course, a college student's knowledge is not bad, but why do you have this preference and say that others are not good? I did a search on the Internet, and I started subsidizing this student when Sun Li was not very famous. I have been subsidizing this student for many years. After the student went to college, he spent a lot of money. When he ran out of money, he asked others for it. Finally, Sun Li stopped funding him. Later, the student publicly said that Sun Li was not good on the Internet. It's easy for stars to make money. What's wrong with giving him some money?
Through this information, I finally know why he is poor. He was born in a poor area, was subsidized by others, and then felt that it was right for others to subsidize him. As for how he is living now, I don't think his life is much better now.
I want to talk about my views on this issue. It is really wrong for Sun Li to subsidize college students and bite Sun Li's "baiwenhang". Now this young man must have a bad life, and no one in society sympathizes with such a low-level person. It is true that some people are "baiwenhang" now. No matter how you help him, he just doesn't appreciate it, as if others owe him. Such people are very annoying.
However, as stars and celebrities, we should not argue with such people. We should give children a chance to correct their mistakes. The man was a child when Sun Li sponsored him. Children don't understand, adults should forgive him. In addition, according to our traditional culture, there is no reward for helping others, and only helping others without reward can truly help others. For those who already live in the lower class, some people don't know how to get along with others, so we must give them a chance to correct them. Stars and celebrities are influential, and one sentence may make a young man unable to turn over all his life. Forgiveness is what people with status should have, and it is stingy to dispute with low-level people.
Confucius said that forgiveness is the best quality of China people, and the author agrees with Confucius. When we help others, we don't want anything in return. When we help others, we don't want anything in return. We just want peace of mind. This is sincere help.
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Why should we help others? Do we have too much money to spend? No. Is it to show off how tall we are? Not exactly. In addition to praying for inner peace and happiness, it is more important for us to cultivate people in society to have a grateful heart, so as to make a virtuous circle and promote the friendly development of society. Therefore, this has nothing to do with celebrities. On the contrary, if a celebrity is too generous, it seems that a lot of generosity objectively sets a bad example for the society, encourages the recipients to become baiwenhang, and destroys the gratitude of the society. Moreover, it is inhuman to ask a charity giver who has been seriously hurt in his heart to give generously, which is undoubtedly adding salt to the wound. The correct way is: let the recipients who made mistakes learn lessons and continue for a period of time; Other people or institutions in the society may or may not give the recipients a chance to be reborn, depending on the situation. Although, from an individual point of view, the recipients may pay a higher price, it is very worthwhile to cultivate a sense of gratitude in society.
What makes me laugh about your question is that many people commented on Sun Li's mistakes, which made me turn over the topic again, for fear that I might get the wrong meaning. I don't comment on why others do it. But I think anyone who gets help from others should remember it all his life and repay it when he is grateful and capable. Except your parents, no one else has the obligation to do anything for you in this life. Therefore, it is conceivable that Sun Li has been subsidizing others for so many years. I believe that these people's parents and close relatives can't do this. Stars have money, but people's money doesn't fall from the sky. Only those who really pay can understand the chilling! This situation, no matter who it is, will be a lifelong shadow!
There must be something hateful about the poor. A person who graduated from primary school to university has no even the most basic gratitude, which makes people feel chilling. There are also things that are not sensible or rebellious in the comment area. Everyone has experienced these things. Are these the reasons? If we really want to find out the reason, it is that what we have learned from primary school to college is useless to him. Where are all the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation? What is the ultimate goal of education? Why do you have a baiwenhang? Isn't it worth pondering?
Whether Sun Li is famous or not, at least this young man's behavior has no moral bottom line. There is no need to be polite to those who are given a chance but can't repent. Blindly being kind is not necessarily doing good. Tolerance and forbearance towards monsters will only hurt more people. This is cause and effect. Helping others is abuse, and eliminating evil is to promote good.
You picked up a dog on the side of the road and kept it. It bit you. Do you want to see how the dog is? Mr. Nan Guo and wolves, farmers and snakes, in fact, animals are not as bad as people's hearts. Take care of yourself and be kind. As for the person who bites you, it is his nature. Kindness is the nature of good people, and evil is the nature of evil people. Just remember, don't turn yourself into the person you hate the most because of the evil of others.
I have read comments from netizens before. It seems that this man is hard to find a job, unpopular and ungrateful. Many companies don't want to use baiwenhang. That's it. You feed him every day, and if you don't feed him every day, he will become inertia and feel that you owe him. He thinks you should feed him. Why don't you feed him? Therefore, you should consider your personal qualities before funding, so as not to bite yourself then. What this man has done makes many people who want to do public welfare daunting, and many people who deserve help can't get help. It is really a negative textbook. Although he said he should be given a chance, it reminds people of the story of the farmer and the snake. Even if I am the boss, I dare not use it. I'm afraid that one day … after all, a dog can't change his criminal record. Now that he is an adult, it is difficult to correct him. He has his own ideas, and his behavior is almost rigid. He may continue to do so. If he is still a teenager, he can be given many opportunities. After all, his chance of going to college is Sun Li, so what's the result? …