Think about it. After decades of struggle and hard work, many ordinary families have really not divorced from their original classes, but continue to be ordinary people in different ways of working. They receive education and work hard, but they still can't get rich, not by going up one flight of stairs! Self-deprecating as the "new poor", characterized by: people with high education, low income, high consumption and low savings.
Can anyone complete the counterattack and break the curse of "class solidification"?
A survey led by Johns Hopkins University gave us the answer. It records the growth and life of 790 children, and the final conclusion may be more cruel than you think:
As far as class mobility is concerned, 50% of "experimental" children are still in the same social class as their parents. That is, it has not achieved class transcendence or decline. The descendants of the poor are still poor, and the children of the rich are still rich.
Only 33 children from low-income families have achieved the bottom counterattack and entered the high-income group in their twenties. Only 19 children from rich families fall into poverty when they grow up.
In the survey of 790 users, only 33 users broke through the inherent class and achieved a "counterattack". It turned out that "I thought life was better than my parents, but it was just a misunderstanding."
So how do those who break through the parents' class and complete the counterattack jump out of the barriers of fate and become dark horses?
We all want to achieve a counterattack and reach a higher level. Is there a golden cultivation method suitable for our ordinary family?
Maybe, but Miao Shu didn't find it, but you can think about the following questions:
Why is poverty "inherited" by most people?
1, which is related to parents' cultivation strategies.
Poor families do not pay attention to cultivating their children's other abilities in their spare time. The only place where these children study is school. Almost all their time is spent on making a living, and they have no time to take care of their children's study and psychological growth.
Children from relatively high-income families will attend various training classes in winter and summer vacations, and parents will consciously arrange their children's play time and study time, so that children can grow up towards their goals in a planned way.
Over the years, these two different strategies have naturally caused different effects, and their learning ability, emotional management, social skills and other aspects have also widened the gap.
And this training strategy is "passed down" from generation to generation. Many times, they don't realize that the most fundamental reason lies in their own training methods, not that children don't work hard.
2. The intimacy between parents and children is related to family income!
The following is a more important research finding:
The intimate relationship between parents and children is closely related to their family income and parents' education level.
The survey mentioned above found that the parent-child relationship of most poor families is alienated, because parents are too tired to make ends meet and have no time to communicate with their children. For children with good family conditions, parents respect their opinions. Although these parents are busy at work, they still listen to their children's voices.
Different ways of parent-child communication affect children's future teamwork ability. Children from poor families have a lot of loneliness in their hearts and are easily marginalized.
In this society, their lonely personality makes their growth path extremely difficult.
No matter rich or poor, stress is a stumbling block on the road to growth!
Are children from poor families necessarily dumber and less competent than children from rich families? It's not that simple. It is stress that determines a child's IQ and ability.
Science has proved that poor families are full of stress, such as bad living environment, long-term separation from parents, and the risk of violence, which will cause neurotoxins in the brain and damage the normal development of the brain.
We know that if children want to develop well, they must get correct and effective cognition and emotional warmth and care from their parents. Moreover, money can give people a sense of security, and can also buy materials that children need to grow and learn.
However, money is not the most critical factor, but the behavior and thinking of parents.
The conclusion that "poverty affects children's brains" is only valid under the assumptions that "parents with low academic qualifications lead to poverty and poverty brings life pressure" and "parents with high academic qualifications bring high income and wealthy families have little life pressure".
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So what Miao Shu wants to say today is what affects children's brain development ability, and more importantly, the pressure behind poverty has been pressing the family.
Parents' low income and low education have little influence, but if children are occupied by the "bandwidth" of the brain under such pressure, it will greatly affect their development. This effect even applies to high-income families.
To a great extent, it is not the family's financial resources that hinder a person from getting rich, but the family's pressure. But many times this pressure comes from lack of financial resources. This requires smart parents how to skillfully resolve in life.
So how do ordinary families manage their finances with limited financial resources? This is another proposition. Uncle Miao once wrote in "I don't know, I save 1000 every month, so that the financial income can reach 50%! "wrote," unbelievable! Divide your monthly salary into five parts, and you can live a good life! " And other articles, I gave some suggestions on family property management, and I also welcome everyone to talk to Uncle Miao.
I am uncle Miao, and I am keen on financial management. From the monthly salary of 2000 to the monthly income of 10000, financial management has made me positive and have a broader life path. I will share financial knowledge and hot information with you every day on the floating platform. I won't say what you can earn immediately here, but at least you can get some money and avoid some financial traps. I hope to study and grow together with you!