1. Polite respect: Even if you are disturbed by your aunt, try to be polite and respectful, and don't respond with rude or offensive language.

2. Find a topic: Find some topics that interest you and try to establish contact with other members, so that you can communicate with them more easily and avoid being disturbed.

3. Express your needs: If your aunts' behavior makes you uncomfortable, you can express your needs and let them know that you want them to respect your privacy and personal space.

4. Ask for help: If you feel that you can't cope with your aunts' behavior, you can consider asking for help, such as asking for support from your superiors or the human resources department.

In short, try to be calm and rational, respect others, and protect your rights and dignity.