In a family, love is the most important. Love between parents, love between parents and children, love is the most important element in this family. Especially in parenting education, love is a natural part of our blood and there is no way to divide it.
But in a family, in the parent-child relationship, is only love enough? Not exactly. We should be left-handed and right-handed. This is the true meaning of love in parenting education. In the problem, unconditionally accepting children belongs to the category of not knowing how to love children, which leads to children becoming more and more delicate, just because there is no rule of doting.
The performance of some doting parents:
1, but I'm afraid that my child will encounter setbacks, troubles and be bullied, and I can't bear to let my child suffer a little.
2. Special treatment. Children are the sun and emperor in the family, and everything in the family revolves around children.
3, easy to satisfy: give the child what he wants and accept the child unconditionally.
4. Face-to-face protection: Parents should have the same educational concept and don't let their children feel protected and sheltered.
In parent-child relationship, true love is respect, understanding, care, acceptance and companionship. True love is to give children some free time and space. True love must have rules and regulations. Therefore, blind and unconditional acceptance is not so much love as indulgence and harm.
Therefore, there is no such thing as strictness or tolerance, because both are needed. Parents who love the rules must know how to balance this scale.
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