I have heard the saying that "maturity is a bright but not dazzling brilliance, a mellow but not greasy voice." Going to college means leaving your parents' arms. You are no longer a person who cries when encountering difficulties, but you have to face this unknown and wonderful world alone. From then on, whether you are happy or upset, you must learn to bear it alone. In this process, you will sharpen a strong heart. In dealing with people, you will also learn to hold back some words and things. You will be graceful and polite, which is a bridge for us to enter the adult world from a "troublesome" kid.
be responsible for
In college, students can give full play to their talents, or sweat profusely in the community to serve their classmates, or the class committee can help teachers solve problems. No matter what kind of work, you need to have a rigorous attitude and the quality of the person in charge. After all, this is a task of teamwork, and everyone needs to bear corresponding responsibilities. Take me for example. At first, I joined the art troupe just to learn to dance, because my interest stayed. But later, I found that this place is not only a place for dancing, but also various things, such as training, dancing, dancing, and meeting the requirements of teachers. But since I am a member of the society, I will persist in completing the task even if I am unhappy, because it is everyone's hard work.
independence
"I especially like people who have an independent personality, know how to take care of themselves, and can enjoy life to the fullest after things are handled properly. They don't talk often because they have the ability to relieve their pain. They rarely show aggression, because they are strong inside and have a kind of compassion and gentleness. They are not incited by cheap remarks and emotions, stick to their own judgments and have no regrets. I like these people because they don't care whether others like them or not. "
They all have a strong sense of self and understand their emotions. They can manage their emotions and recover from sadness and misfortune. But perhaps the most important thing is that they can control their impulses and know how to delay their satisfaction, so as to avoid rash decisions and inappropriate behaviors.
Of course, college students still need a lot of qualities. Here are just some examples.