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What do you think is the relationship between love and sex?
Because of love, it is asexual.

Let me tell a sex story about my college roommate.

Roommates are tall, heroic and handsome. In my senior year, my roommate was a reserve cadre in a supermarket.

During the rotation of the receiving department, my roommate saw a man pulling a female employee of a company outside the receiving platform. The roommate immediately went up to persuade her that the girl went back to work in the supermarket with the help of her roommate.

After that, roommates and girls became acquainted. The girl told her roommate that the man had been chasing her, but he was a street thug. She doesn't like that man, but he keeps harassing her.

After many exchanges, the two sides quickly determined the relationship between lovers. Roommates brought their girlfriends to the dormitory many times, and they kissed happily every time, but as long as roommates proposed to have sex, girls would be unhappy and immediately asked to leave. Therefore, even if a girl spends the night in her roommate's dormitory, she can do anything as long as she doesn't have sex.

They have been together for more than half a year. One day, after watching an evening movie, my roommate took the girl to the dormitory again. The girl had no choice but to agree. That night, my roommate kissed and stroked the girl excitedly, ready to have sex with her forcibly, but the girl still resolutely disagreed. She cried and cried very sadly without any explanation. Roommates have to control themselves and stay up all night.

The roommate broke up the next day, and the girl left without pleading or any explanation. After half a month, the girl resigned. Roommates are also ashamed to get out of the shadow of love.

Then one day, my roommate suddenly received a girl's WeChat, telling him that before she met him, the girl was raped by a gangster and she had a sexually transmitted disease. She doesn't want to hurt the person she loves, so she always refuses to have sex.

My roommate tried every means to find a girl, but he never contacted her again. Although she disappeared from his life, she never disappeared from his mind.

Because of love, it is asexual. What a sad story.

Women have love first, then sex. Men have sex first, then love!

She and I were very young that year, probably less than 19 years old! Classmate, she has a boyfriend! I am single! We usually have a good relationship. We often play together and have supper. There won't be too many thoughts, that is, the so-called brother and sister can't bully, and they never thought about what happened with her!

She is sunny, lively, cheerful, straightforward and feels like a buddy. Say whatever you want, unlike some girls who like to beat around the bush, and even a little like buddies!

In that semester, I fell in love with a senior! Ask her to inquire about it and fix it up. She helped me very hard. In a few days, she asked my seniors out for dinner, because it was the first time we met. My seniors and I are still rather formal. She has been joking to help us solve our embarrassment and flatter me. Success has attracted the attention of senior sister! With her help, I succeeded in catching up with my senior!

When I fell in love with my senior, I was naturally proud of the spring breeze, and every day the dragon disappeared! Get along with her less, and you will never find her loneliness! Until one night, she dragged me to the small bar next to the school, drank a lot of wine, and drank almost all of me. They had sex when they checked in! I just realized that she already likes me. Because she likes me, she has never let her boyfriend touch her. Under the repeated coercion of her boyfriend, she told her boyfriend that she had a favorite person in her heart and could not accept his love. They broke up peacefully!

And I have been nervous and hesitant for a long time because of this matter! One is worried about whether she will get pregnant. Second, what about seniors? After careful consideration, I think that as a man, I should take responsibility. Even if I like seniors again, I broke up with them at that time! Senior still don't know why! I just feel that I am an ungrateful person, but I can't say it!

Later, I spent a wonderful college time with her until we parted ways after graduation! Don't contact again

Think back to her youth, think back to her, and wonder if she is all right!

I think that with love, sex is a natural thing; It is also the further sublimation of love! Of course, it is a story of loveless sex; That's not love, just get what you want!

Insert a story here!

Yes, in 2009.

I still work in Shanghai, for some reasons; I share an apartment with a young lady. She is a married woman and her husband is studying in Japan. And I'm unmarried and just finished a long-distance relationship!

That young woman may be a beginner, but she should be relatively empty. We shared the rent for less than half a year, and I beat her half-heartedly!

Maybe there is no love between us, so we never say "I love you" to each other. It's more about each other's physiological needs. We are more like knowing ourselves; Talk about everything, and often discuss which girl looks good and which man has a good figure! She often asks me why I stop looking for a girlfriend. My answer is that it depends on fate!

We also often go shopping hand in hand, eat together, watch movies together and discuss Korean ethical films together!

She often videos with her husband QQ in front of me, and we never interfere! This relationship lasted until her husband came back!

This is the story of sex without love!

There are generally two ways to look at personal values and love.

The first is that love and sex can be separated. My daughter-in-law has a brother in her hometown, surnamed Qi, who is a contractor. She earns a lot of money every year, but seldom goes home. Her daughter-in-law is a rural woman, very fat and ugly. Because her husband was away from home all the year round, she began to have an abnormal relationship with the men in the village. It is said that there are more than a dozen. You want to ask her if she loves those men? Of course not. Do those men love her? I don't think any man has ever said love.

Second, I think love and sex are inseparable. It turns out that a colleague is a woman and looks good. When it comes to the relationship between love and sex, she insists that only love can have sex, and sex without love is hooliganism. I told her that her husband's working environment was easy to cheat, and she didn't believe me. As a result, her husband cheated on her for several months, and the cheating object was a young lady, which she couldn't accept.

Remember what I said before, only for one person.

"No love, no sex." This is the principle I believe in and my responsibility to the people I love.

They all say "eating habits are also". Indeed, throughout the ages, especially for men, it is really "sex." I am also a person, and like all men in the world, I have such a nature. But it doesn't mean that everyone will act according to their own nature.

People are animals and have normal reproduction and needs; Lovely and different from animals, people have feelings and should know what not to do and when to restrain themselves. When I was studying, I hated it. Some students are proud of playing with girls. It seems that in the eyes of these people, the so-called "sex" is the most important.

From school to now, I have seen so many things that I always feel that it is not uncommon for men and women to have sex without love. It is said that foreigners are open, but at present, it seems that we are worse.

I scoff at the joy of falling in love at first sight, and the feeling of being bored for a long time is the purest. If you don't love each other for a long time, the temporary happiness that is easy to get is only temporary. Without emotional foundation, the so-called "sex" is nothing but hooliganism.

Only when two people fall in love and immerse themselves in sweet feelings can they enjoy real sex ~

I have a friend who hasn't been in love for three years in college, but talked about long-distance love in senior three.

Her boyfriend is so handsome that he comes all the way to see her every weekend. It should be rare and enviable that a long-distance relationship can do this.

However, the girl soon became pregnant. At that time, during the thesis defense, the students were preparing their papers, but the girl was pregnant. Boyfriend is scared and doesn't know what to do. He paid hundreds of dollars to let the girl go. In the end, the girl had an abortion by herself, and the two broke up.

When the intimate relationship between two people is established, sex is definitely a topic that must be discussed. A clever girl should know how to protect herself from harm and learn to refuse.

Once you give yourself, the other person will not think you love him, but will think you are frivolous and have no self-esteem. Men will not value you, but will despise you. How can others love you if you don't love yourself? The last one who got hurt was himself.

So if you love, please respect yourself and be careful.

I wrote her a love letter the year she graduated from grade three.

Later, when I was a freshman, we began to fall in love. Although they live in the same city, they are both resident students, and the school is very strict. In addition, they are busy with their studies and can only meet once every 2-3 months.

The way to keep in touch is the school public telephone, SMS, QQ and postcard. The content of communication is to encourage each other to learn, miss each other and think about the future.

At that time, love was very simple and green. I remember dating for half a year before I got up the courage to hold hands. I've only been kissing for almost a year, and when I get wet, I blush and my heart beats.

Later, she went to Beijing in college. And because I know that I am not qualified enough to go to the same university in Beijing, I feel a little inferior in front of her. In addition, I have too much uncertainty and difficulty in grasping myself, so how to deal with emotional problems. For various reasons, we broke up in senior three.