Too realistic psychology. "Suitable for the right family" is naturally the first choice for love and marriage, which can avoid many unnecessary troubles after marriage. But it's too "pragmatic", and the smell of copper is too strong, which will make another monk, Zhang Er, very confused, wondering whether he loves money or his lover. Maybe you can't even tell where your love is. If you have love in your heart, simple tea and light rice can make you strong and beautiful. The misunderstanding of college students' love is unacceptable

2. Sit down and enjoy success. Who doesn't want to make ends meet? What he doesn't want must be retarded. But you can't be too smart to regard it as a calculation and means. In the end, you can only lose yourself. Ladies and lovers should love to marry properly, otherwise they will only scare others away. We should bid farewell to the misunderstanding of college students' love.

3, so ambitious. This is a mentality that the heart is higher than the sky and the life is thinner than paper, and it is impossible to look at yourself objectively. In the economic society, it is necessary to change your destiny through marriage or "curve saving the country", but if you are not among the beautiful women, don't enter the field of economics, which is unrealistic and thankless, especially in the price decline. It's like baking ice on the stove. It is impossible not to melt. There are many things in real life that need to be exchanged with reciprocity, and love and marriage are no exception. Therefore, when you look at yourself, you need to have an objective, fair and realistic vision and attitude, so as not to "be ashamed to see your elders in Jiangdong" afterwards. This is called waiting for the price, knowing yourself and knowing yourself is invincible.