A man killed his parents and fled to Cambodia. In the process of being arrested, there was no remorse and the expression was indifferent. Like it's none of your business.
Ironically, his father is a well-known lawyer and his mother is a university professor. Whose fault is it that such a Kochi family should cultivate such a child who is worse than an animal? Is he a born villain or is he ill-bred?
At the beginning of life, human nature is good, which is left to us by our ancestors, because he thinks that every child is born with a blank sheet of paper, and what can change him is the acquired environment. So this is the origin of the theory of good nature, but I think that everyone has defined her whole person's attributes at birth. This person is kind, then he is kind, this person is hateful, then he is wicked. This is Xunzi's theory of evil nature. Of course, both of them have their own reasons.
For this man, his family education will not be bad, because his parents are intellectuals. He has been studying abroad, and he has received education from both China and foreign countries, so his knowledge level should be very high. However, the root cause of this killing is also the problem of studying abroad. My mother thinks that he has learned badly from some friends abroad, so I hope he can stay at home and stay with him for strict supervision. But because the child is old and doesn't listen to him, there is a contradiction.
Such a vicious killing incident actually has a lot to do with myself. First of all, because he has been studying abroad for a long time, his feelings with his parents are relatively weak. Moreover, the family environment is better, there may not be so much communication between parents, parents also have their own legitimate careers, there are many things, and the children are older, so they don't pay so much attention to his study of making friends.
Secondly, because of the good family environment, we are a little loose in money. The living environment in foreign countries is no worse than that in China. There are some bad guys. Moreover, in recent years, due to the profligacy of overseas students in China, many of them have contracted bad habits. We can't rule out the existence of such a group of people around him, so there will be fierce contradictions and conflicts only if his mother doesn't let him go back to England to study.
Finally, I hope this kind of thing can remind everyone. It doesn't mean that a child can grow up healthily as long as he is financially satisfied. Sometimes spiritual satisfaction is the most important thing.
People's personality can not be determined from birth, and it has a lot to do with the environmental impact in the later period. If the boy grew up with his parents, maybe things wouldn't have come to this. I wonder if he has any regrets about such an incident.
Do you feel guilty and sad at the thought of destroying your family in prison?