In many things, you need to please the counselor, because to some extent, he holds the power of life and death. You are an ordinary student. He can decide your scholarship and even ask for leave. If you are a student union cadre, monitor or class cadre, he decides your employment, which is a recommendation opportunity for your future work.

The relationship between counselors is equivalent to your leader, but in some cases, it is more powerful than your leader. If you are in the company, you can resign the next day, get angry with your boss and leave your job smartly. But not in college. Good counselors will show you the beauty of the university, while unreliable counselors will make you face all the ugliness.

The shortcomings of human nature are the rules that we must abide by, or the hidden rules that we have to abide by.

We are all incompetent, have no money, can't afford to support our parents, and there is nothing wrong with pleasing the counselor. After all, the word have it both ways is not necessarily a comprehensive derogatory term.