A letter to myself four years after college, Fan.
Self in 20 17:
Hello!
I don't know what kind of mood you are reading this letter. At this time, are you still as sad for your bleak future as I am, or why don't you say hello politely and ask from the heart: How are you?
Let me tell you something about my life now.
I have been in college for more than half a year now, and I am familiar with the school and the surrounding environment, but I don't seem to adapt to college life now. There are many busy things every day, and homework review can't keep up with the progress. It is said that studying in college is easy, but I have no such feeling at all. Sometimes I miss my miserable senior three life and look forward to an early end. After all, although I was busy at that time, I was also very fulfilling. Students will take time out to joke with each other, or get lost in thought about the same math or physics problem, or argue with each other because of different opinions. Even the cold war at the end of the third year of high school is now so nostalgic, just like the high school life at that time. Maybe that's what people do. They didn't know how to cherish it until they lost their present life. So I guess you must miss my life four years ago now, although I can't stop complaining now.
The most important thing in college is to study. What you learn here is not only the chivalrous knowledge you learned in college, but also a wide range of skills to improve your personal quality. During the four-year college freshman year, while studying basic courses, I took part in various club activities and held certain positions to cultivate my own ability and communication ability and prepare for finding a job in the future. Sophomore, in addition to completing the transition from basic courses to specialized courses, I can also dabble in various fields of knowledge and expand my knowledge. You can choose a part-time job or a job related to your major, participate in social practice activities such as volunteering and teaching, and further contact with the society; Junior year, this is an important stage in planning life goals. In this year, you should make a good choice about your future development direction, try to learn the knowledge of senior in junior year, and choose the most suitable life path by referring to the experience of senior year. Senior year, it's time to send yourself into society. You can write a resume, browse various websites and attend company interviews. If you stick to your beliefs and life in college for four years, then your senior year is the harvest season.
After four years, you may go to graduate school to realize your academic dream. You can study abroad and trace the origin of art in my dream country; You may go back to your hometown, the town where you were born and raised, and smell the local flavor; You may fly farther and farther, drifting to unknown places. Sending postcards is the easiest way to remember. You may have found a good job, and you sounded a little proud when you called your mother. You may still be worried about not finding a good job, but you don't want to worry your family. So you learned to smile and bury your tears in your heart. In my heart, this is also a kind of maturity, a kind of courage I have never had before. Ceng Zi said? A scholar cannot but strive for self-improvement. He has a long way to go, and benevolence is his responsibility. Not only is it important for my four years of college, but it is also important for my four years of mediocrity.
Four years later, I will definitely become a person with strong comprehensive ability, enter the big family of society, and arm myself with all kinds of knowledge I have learned in Jida University.
Four years later, I will be able to realize my dream, board my own stage and show my style through the springboard of Jida University.
After four years, I must learn to struggle, learn to exercise myself, and do something.
Four years in college is not a long or short time. There is a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will go up and down. Work hard, now I, let my college for four years, and never regret it.
XXX
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A letter to myself four years after college, Fan.
Dear self:
Before writing this article, I was still addicted to the joy and passion of the game. Open the word, face the blank page, put your hands on the keyboard, and can't hold back a word for a long time, and then think, is this the college life I have been pursuing for three years?
I admit, I went to college because the high school teacher instilled the concept in us for three years. Now the main task is to study, study, study. As long as I am admitted to the university, you can play whatever you want, and nobody cares about you.
After experiencing the tense and suffocating atmosphere of the last 1 month college entrance examination, I realized my pursuit of three years of college life. After living here for 1 month, I can't help thinking, if I go back to senior three, can I bear such heavy studies? Here, every week is a weekend, unlike senior three, there are only six hours of rest on Sunday afternoon, and there are still many homework and papers waiting for me, and the course is less than half of senior three. The teacher's attitude in class is so relaxed, and we are so free below, so we don't have to be afraid that the teacher will suddenly appear beside me. I used to think that college life was like this.
However, after the final exam of the first semester, I found that I didn't learn anything and got nothing this semester. I receive many money orders for living expenses from my parents every month. Isn't it just four years in college? Do you play games every day? Has it always been so ordinary, mediocre and inaction? I am not reconciled!
Four years later, can you tell me what your life is like now? What kind of job do you have? What do you know that I can't know now, but I want to tell you:
When you leave campus and your classmates for four years, don't worry about being lonely and helpless in this dark world full of interests and rights, and don't be afraid of being cheated and cheated, because then you will grow up. Alas, I don't know what I am doing every day now, and the days have passed like this;
Alas, I listen to the Chinese characters I understand in the classroom every day, and I don't know what it means. Why? Is it just to earn some poor salary after graduation? I don't know
Alas, apart from my parents, I really don't know what else in this world is worth my nostalgia;
I don't know what I'm here for. I don't know why I am studying now and why I am struggling. I am slim. I don't like science and engineering, but I chose science and engineering. I don't want to spend these four years so ordinary, but I am ordinary now. I always think that college students should be thoughtful, moral, idealistic, tasteful and cultured. I don't want those college students around me to degenerate into primitive society and export all kinds of animal-like behaviors such as foul language. Alas, I thought of the mud but didn't dye it, only to find that they regarded me as an alien, but they thought they were dyed. Alas, I can't change it a little, and I don't want to adapt to this environment.
In reality, success is not the accumulation of failure, but the summary and transcendence of failure. If you don't know this, what will happen? The more failures, the more successes? Absurd conclusion. For example, the famous parallel axiom in mathematics was doubted from the beginning. For thousands of years, countless mathematicians have tried to prove the parallel axiom, but all failed. Mathematician poirier engaged in proving parallel axioms all his life, but achieved nothing, and finally died painfully in despair. Just as this question is like a bottomless pit? Because it devoured people's wisdom, but it didn't pay off, Lobachevsky found the reason for the failure after seven years of verification and no results. After repeated failures, Lobachevsky summarized and analyzed the causes and consequences of the failure, and realized the problem in essence, thus achieving success. So? Failure is the mother of success? This is an objective law, but to truly turn failure from possibility into reality into success, we must learn from failure and guide future work through continuous exploration and scientific analysis. Is this enough? Failure in vain.
Young people tend to fail and lose heart in their work, which we should remember? Failure is the mother of success? Only by establishing firm self-confidence can we see hope from disappointment and move from failure to success.
? Failure is the mother of success? It should not only be our favorite motto, but more importantly, it should be our guide to action. ? The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold? Benefit from failure and rise from diligence. This is the road to success for aspiring young people.
Failure is frustration and pain, but it can be transformed into success. Don't regret the past, it's useless to regret, and it can't make up for the present. In this materialistic age, you have no time to regret. Go in your own direction, and no one will care about your failure!
XXX
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