"It takes a hundred years of training to get a * * * pillow sleep". The fate between people is magical. Whether it is life, work or even love, physical differences are not the most important. Remember two words: first, I was born to be useful; The day you were born, your fate was sealed.
Don't think too much, live well and work hard, and there will be a happy life and a sweet marriage and family. People should live out their self-confidence and their true selves. Good luck.