When they have no sense of identity and belonging to their families, the university environment becomes the best place to accommodate and accept them. So his relationship with his roommate will be better than his relationship with his parents. He doesn't feel lonely here, even only happy. When chatting with his family, he felt that there was a big gap and pressure, so he didn't want to have too much communication with his family.
Whenever his family wants to inquire about him, he will say that everything is fine and there is no problem. Or use some extremely simple modal auxiliary words such as uh-huh, uh-huh and so on. To respond to parents' inquiries and concerns about themselves, parents will feel bored at this time, so there is no way to chat again, which is exactly what college students want.
So many times college students just want to ask their parents at home when they have no money. They take it for granted that parents provide school education and tuition for their children. So I asked for money from home, and there was no reaction of blushing and heartbeat.
However, according to the laws of our country, parents have fulfilled their obligation to support their children after they reach the age of 18. The life after that is that the children go by themselves. Whether he has tuition or not, whether he has a school education or not. There is no legal problem.
Children should also do their duty to support their parents when they are old, and they should be given a certain amount of living expenses every month, which is also stipulated by law. But many times, parents do the former, while children can't do the latter.
Now children often move out when they grow up, rarely go home to visit the elderly, and even don't call at ordinary times. As a result, there are more and more empty nesters, and even many old people don't even know that they are dead, or neighbors help to take care of the aftermath.