Basically, with the growth of age, it will become more and more realistic. When we interact with people, we often look at each other's present value and potential future value. Therefore, in junior high school and senior high school, we may isolate someone and talk about their behavior behind their backs, but when we get to college, we will comprehensively consider each other's family, ability and other factors, and generally will not easily tear our faces. University is impersonal, which will make it easier for you to adapt to society. Of course, this does not mean that all people in the university are realistic. Maybe you can meet good-hearted, like-minded classmates and even bosom friends. If you haven't met him yet, don't be too sad. As the ancients said, you are born with a bosom friend and die without regret. How can you get a bosom friend and bosom friend so easily?