The reasons why universities are excluded by roommates should be found from the following aspects: whether they have done anything wrong, whether they are jealous, and whether they have an influential person.

1. Did you do something wrong to them?

Sorry, they are not just one thing, they may be accumulated by many small things. For example, long-term disclosure of roommate privacy, or casually use other people's things, borrowed things always forget to return. It may also be that they have done a lot of bad things to them, such as inadvertently speaking ill of their roommates to the counselors, which led to their criticism and even punishment.

2. Is there anything to envy?

Jealousy belongs to the instinctive reaction of human nature. You should first find out whether you have been envied for a long time. For example, everyone in the same dormitory studied hard, and only one person got thousands of scholarships. Or you are too handsome or too beautiful, attracting a lot of goodwill from the opposite sex, and the opposite sex who likes you is exactly the person you like in your dormitory, so the consequences can be imagined.

3. Are there any influential people?

Is there such a person who can gather other people's hearts and cause others to alienate you for no reason? Because the characteristic of an influential person is to let others fight him unconsciously. He forms a group together, and those who are not angry with you get together not to isolate you, but to be together, so they come to isolate you.

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Countermeasures of being squeezed out by roommates

1, which can be solved

For example, because of the influence of the schedule, or something makes the other person misunderstand himself, or you really do something very sorry for the other person, then it is easy to deal with.

You should put aside your face, take the first step, communicate with them sincerely, eliminate their misconceptions about you, or formulate a set of work and rest rules that are very suitable for everyone, adjust your behavior, and let the other party make certain adjustments. You can invite them to a meal or buy some gifts as the beginning of communication, and others will feel your sincerity first.

2, impossible to solve

If you can't find the above reasons, or after finding the reasons, you feel that it can't be solved through communication, for example, the other person's values are too different from yours, which can't be changed, then you have only one and the most effective way, change the dormitory or move out.